Question 1

Who is this event for?

Accepted Answer

This event is for women of all professions and men that are first responders (active duty/retired firefighters, EMS, cops, military and their friends (we allow male first responders to bring male civilian friends). 90% of men in attendance are first responders.

Question 2

What type of women will enjoy this event?

Accepted Answer

If you're outgoing, like to dance, flirt & enjoy meeting new people, this event is perfect for you! Our icebreakers are designed for women to approach men, making it a fun & engaging experience. If you prefer a more traditional setting where men approach you, speed dating might be more your style.

Question 3

What will the ratio of men to women be?

Accepted Answer

The ratio of women to men at this event typically ranges from 2:1 to 3:1. Male First Responders is obviously a more niche group than women of all professions. The ratio can vary depending on your arrival time. Early in the evening, you'll find more women, while later on, more men tend to arrive.

Question 4

Are the men just looking to hook up or for longer-term relationships?

Accepted Answer

How can you be sure someone is truly single? Unfortunately, it relies on the honor system. Sometimes, not-single wingmen accompany their single friends, and there may be men who claim to be single but are actually in a relationship. Trust your instincts, use your best judgment, and remember—Google c

Question 5

How do you know all of the men in attendance are actually single?

Accepted Answer

How can you be sure someone is really single? Unfortunately, it's the honor system. Sometimes, not-single wingmen accompany their single friends, and there may be men who claim to be single but are in a relationship. Trust your instincts, use your best judgment, & remember—Google can be your friend.

Question 6

Do women come solo or do I need to bring a friend?

Accepted Answer

Most women attend solo, making this the perfect event to meet a new wingwoman. Just be ready to be social, approach, and engage with people. Don't come and sit at a table sulking all night, expecting guys to approach you

Question 7

How do you know the men in attendance are actually first responders?

Accepted Answer

We require agency ID for entrance. Male first responders can bring civilian male friends as guests, but civilian men can only enter if they arrive with a male who has an agency ID. Over 90% of male attendees are first responders.

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