Non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, open relationships… there are so many ways we reference alternative relationship styles. Whether you’re opening up an existing relationship, or trying to design a new partnership, it can be hard! We have to confront many things about ourselves, our partners, and our relationship as we pursue this brand new world.
This course is designed to answer all the questions a couple might have about pursuing non-monogamy, as well as help you create a framework for your pursuit of non-monogamy.
First, you’ll be introduced to non-monogamy as a concept — tackling all the types of non-monogamy, the definitions, and, of course, jealousy. Then, you’ll define your individual values. Finally, you’ll come together with your partner to begin brainstorming on your boundaries, dealbreakers and overall desires.
Agenda
6:30 PM: Arrival
7:00 PM: Class Begins
9:00PM: Q&A
9:30 PM: Class Ends
About Your Instructor
Gabrielle Smith (she/her) is a writer and non-monogamy educator based out of Brooklyn. Since 2020, she has coached over 100 clients on alternative relationship structures, negotiations, and, of course, jealousy. She has been featured in Red Table Talk, and her writing has appeared in Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue, Business Insider and various other publications. You can find her on Instagram @bygabriellesmith, where she teachers her over 50,000 followers about relationships, kink, and sex — all from an intersectional lens.
FAQs
FAQ: what should I bring?
*A pen and paper for notes!
FAQ: what should I wear?
*Whatever makes you comfortable! This isn't a sexy course and we will be sitting at tables.
FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)
*This is an all levels course — even if you're experienced in non-monogamy, the practices are intended to help you navigate big feelings, vetting, and how to deal with living as a non-monogamous single.
FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?
This is a couples-centric course, so we ask that you bring a partner! The tickets are priced for couples, so no need to purchase two.
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