Question 1

Do I need to be spiritual, or polyamorous, or looking for love?

Accepted Answer

Not necessarily, but you can be. All you need is an open mind and a willingness to connect with other people. It's recommended that you be honest with your intentions - if you are looking for a relationship, disclose that, if you are just looking for a play mate or for friendship, disclose that.

Question 2

Will it be sexual?

Accepted Answer

Whilst sexual energy may arise as it often does, this is not an orgy, or a play party (these do exist - I can recommend a very good one that my friend is hosting if that's what you’re after). It's more sensual, involving massage elements, assisted stretches, intimacy beyond sex  & general tactility.

Question 3

Do I need to get naked?

Accepted Answer

There is no requirement to be fully naked, however we will be giving and receiving massage. If you do wish to get fully naked and feel comfortable to do so - also not a problem.

Question 4

What if I feel uncomfortable?

Accepted Answer

It's advised you check in with yourself around certain things like "How willing am I to step outside of my comfort zone?", "Am I ok with other men expressing themselves through nudity?" before booking however if discomfort arises unexpectedly, we are here to talk and support.

Dare to Date Differently for GBTQ+ Men