Caning 101 With Raymond Wise

Sensuous - Arousing - Orgasmic - Altered State - Sadomasochistic - Even Quiet Caning

By Raymond Wise

Date and time

Saturday, April 13 · 1:30 - 4:30pm EDT

Location

Downingtown

Downingtown Downingtown, PA 19335

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About this event

"No, I don't do anything harsh. A cane isn't for me," I explained to the cane vendor.

I was at the BDSM club in New York, Paddles, and they had a cane vendor there. He was trying to sell me a cane.


He demonstrated some techniques on his forearm showing how a cane could be used rhythmically ( he had seen me flog earlier, a observant instructor ) and suggested I borrow it and give it a try (a good salesman).


I put my slave face down on the rack, chained her down.

Before starting I admired her little apple shaped alluring ass. The focus of everyone's attention I'm sure.


I tried the various ideas he had shown me.

She was spaced out pretty quick, mouth agape, somewhat erratic and then rhythmic breathing, bits and pieces of ohhhhh's and staccato Ah's as I worked rhythmically on her, so I was getting interested in the cane.


It was thick, a little over a half inch. While it was a somewhat stiff, powerful, rhythmic beating near the end, it wasn't terribly harsh. Only some redness on her ass. Just increased the intensity of the rhythm and hit harder and faster...


She began to tense up, the chains of the restraints straightened, she became stiff, curling her spine, like she often does before orgasms...


And then she climaxed.

And continued to climax.

Loud.

She's loud.

For quite some time.


Like she was being murdered.

Everyone saw a woman come from just a caning.

Not a very harsh one.

Other than music from speakers and her panting as she came down from her orgasms, Paddles was quiet. I

turned to the vendor and said,

"I'll take it."



Harsh and punishing is what generally comes to mind with Canes. It doesn't have to be that way (but we'll cover that as well in the workshop, but, hard, is easy.) Arousal, altered state (sub-space), orgasms are all possible with canes. The range of sensations is large and subtle.

We'll cover:


Trust and Patience and Desire. Getting someone to the point where they WANT you to cane them is something you need to know about.


Types of canes besides rattan there's all sorts of materials.


Sting, Thud, Arousing and other sensations are attainable with the right cane and technique.


Connection - You get that in most of my hands on workshops. It's one approach to altered states, arousal, and in general, better relationships!


Technique - Using more of the cane for varied sensation. Thud - anchoring caning to arousal - rhythm Altered States - double caning.


Sado-masochism. First thing you think of, right? Of course it's included.


QUIET caning. Apartment dwellers will especially like this.

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Starting in the late 70s before the interweb, before knowing anybody actually does this sort of thing, Wise would introduce girlfriends into BDSM. The cornerstone of that seduction is knowing what each other really needs, and fulfilling that need. “All I do is lead people where they want to go.” That’s the focus of most of his workshops: find out what you both really need and how you need to get it. Then lead them there.

Carter Steven’s Pocono Fall Fetish Fling (in 1998) was his first foray into the public scene where Joe and candi taught him what they know about flogging. After learning from lots of people, he’s given workshops at the York Play Group, Brimstone, The first NDDS bootcamp and The Warehouse, Sexploratorium and The Kink Shoppe.

He also has participated in the BDSM module of SAR at Widener University, for the Graduate Class in Human Sexuality, exposing future therapists to some aspects of BDSM.

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