Question 1

What if I don't want to be touched by a particular person?  Am I stuck?

Accepted Answer

You have total control over who touches you and how you want to be touched.  We spend a lot of time on this at the beginning, talking about consent, practicing our No's--both saying it and receiving a No graciously.

Question 2

Can I bring alcohol?

Accepted Answer

This is a substance-free event.  We ask that you arrive without having imbibed and we will serve non-alcoholic beverages.

Question 3

You say the doors lock at 7 pm.  Am I trapped?  What if I want to leave early?

Accepted Answer

We are rigorous about arriving in time, however, you can leave whenever you want to.  Just let one of the facilitators know so we aren't worried about what happened to you!

Question 4

What should I wear?

Accepted Answer

For the Cuddle Puddle, wear something comfortable.  You must have your breasts and genitals covered at all times.

For the remaining events, where whatever makes you feel good.  Panties must stay on, but all other clothing is optional.

Question 5

Will there be nudity?

Accepted Answer

At the Cuddle Puddle, breasts and genitals must be covered at all times.

At the remaining events, we ask that you keep panties on, all other clothing is optional.

Joy of Touch Series (cis/trans women and nonbinary AFAB)