Grief Daylong for Suicide Loss Survivors

Join us for an in-person day dedicated to healing and connection. This supportive event is designed especially for suicide loss survivors (partners, siblings, parents, children, other family members, friends, teachers, people who lost dear loved ones to suicide and want a place to process and get support, etc).

Monique and Phoenix lost their 17-year-old son to suicide four years ago and are honored to accompany others on this deep path of grieving together by offering ritual holding and somatic and creative resources that have helped them on their journey.

Spend the day sharing stories, finding comfort, and discovering ways to move forward with understanding and compassion through a collective grief altar, creative processes, and community. We will spend a part of the day outside held by nature.

In this daylong, Monique Miyake will lead you in writing and visual art processes. We will make beauty and meaning out of our pain through collage by creating a grief companion card you can take home with you.

Phoenix Song will lead you through active sounding practices that help you express and soothe, and then offer a passive sound bath where you get to receive nourishment and love through vibration.

You're not alone — come be part of a caring community where we can hold each other's losses together. This day will soothe your soul and help you feel connected to others in your heartbreak, which will provide some strength as you navigate loss.

Please bring a sack lunch. Bring layers and sun protection. Snacks will be provided.

Monique Miyake is a multidisciplinary artist, performer, ritualist, end-of-life doula, hospice RN, and bereaved mother. Her work lives at the intersection of grief, care, and transformation. Her previous solo shows were When the Heavens Opened and Sealskin Soulskin: Finding My Way Home. Grounded in both lived experience and spiritual care, she holds a Master of Divinity from Harvard University, and is a Reiki master and chaplain trained in Clinical Pastoral Education at UCSF. Monique is a certified Compassionate Bereavement Care Provider and HOPE Mentor through the MISS Foundation. Her original artwork, grief companion deck, prints and grief services including art facilitation are available here: moniquemiyake.com

Phoenix Song is a queer, nonbinary Korean American adoptee performer, writer, teacher, and healer featured in SF Magazine's Best of the Bay. They specialize in world fusion and sacred ritual through Korean shamanic music, Indian classical, neo-soul, and wordless chanting. For the last twenty years, Phoenix has performed many solo and collaborative shows at Queer and Asian Conference, Empowering Women of Color Festival, Reimagine Festival at SF Jazz, SF Pride Main Stage, Asian Heritage Festival main stage, the Queer Arts Festival, and SF International Arts Festival. Phoenix loves to help people free their voices to sing, sound and speak their truths in private and group sessions. They hold embodied expressive arts sessions, grief rituals, ancestral healing classes, monthly sound baths at Grace Cathedral in SF. phoenixsongmusic.com