Come for the BBQ. Stay for the connections.
🔥 MERGE -Come Together- Fall BBQ
Come for the BBQ. Stay for the connections.
Saturday, October 10, 2026 4:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Private Residence – Wind Gap, PA (Address provided on your ticket receipt.
2 Part Event - BBQ Social + Lifestyle event
Come Together is an invitation to slow down, share great food, and enjoy the company of an incredible community.
Spend a beautiful autumn afternoon and evening with MERGE as we bring people together for a relaxed backyard BBQ followed by our signature after-hours indoor lifestyle experience. Meet new friends, reconnect with familiar faces, and let the day—and the connections you make—unfold naturally.
This is a two-part, all-inclusive event. Your ticket includes both the afternoon BBQ and the evening indoor MERGE experience. Join us for the BBQ only, the evening only, or stay for the entire journey—your ticket covers it all.
Unlike many lifestyle events that begin after dark, Come Together starts around the table. The afternoon BBQ gives everyone the opportunity to relax, laugh, play lawn games, share a meal, and get to know one another before the evening naturally transitions indoors. Time and again, our guests tell us this unhurried, connection-first approach is what makes MERGE different.
Whether you're joining us for the first time or returning to see familiar faces, Come Together is about sharing a day that begins with great food, grows through genuine connection, and ends wherever the evening naturally leads.
🕓 Schedule at a Glance
4:00 PM – Guest Arrival & Socializing
4:30 PM – 7:30 PM – BBQ Dinner Served
Sunset – MERGE After Hours Opens
1:00 AM – Event Concludes (or camp overnight)
🎟️ Tickets
Couple's - $60 ($20 Deposit / $40 Due at Door)
Single Males - $70 ($20 Deposit / $50 Due at Door)
Single Females - $20
🍖 PART ONE – Backyard BBQ
Relax, meet new people, enjoy great food, and spend the afternoon getting to know everyone before the evening unfolds.
Menu
• Roast Pork
• Grilled Chicken
• Spicey Sausage
• Roasted Potatoes
• Harvest Vegetables
• Baked Beans
• Fresh Seasonal Fruit
• Homemade Desserts
• Jell-O Shots
• Snacks available throughout the evening
Bring a lawn chair and settle in for an enjoyable afternoon outdoors.
🍷 Drinks
BYOB
MERGE will provide:
• Ice • Water
• Soft Drinks
• Mixers
We'll also be offering complimentary tastings of our homemade:
🍷 Red Wine
🍯 Mead
Sample them, enjoy them, and let us know which one is your favorite!
🌻 Fall Atmosphere
🎵 Music will be playing throughout the day and evening to create the perfect summer backyard atmosphere.
Relax, mingle, enjoy the sunshine, and soak in the laid-back summer vibe before the evening shifts indoors.
🌙 PART TWO – MERGE After Hours
As the sun sets, the gathering naturally transitions indoors into the MERGE event space.
Features include:
• Three private play rooms
• Reverse Glory Hole
• Video Projection Play Room with live action projected onto a television in the lounge area
• Comfortable social seating areas
• Climate-controlled indoor environment
• Plenty of space to socialize, mingle, or simply relax between conversations
Whether you're there to socialize, watch, flirt, connect, or participate, everyone is encouraged to enjoy the evening at their own comfort level. There is never any expectation to participate.
🎁 Special Perks & Giveaways
We love rewarding our guests!
👯 Bring a Friend!
Women who bring another woman to the event will receive a special MERGE gift as our way of saying thank you.
🎟️ Raffle
Throughout the evening we'll also be holding raffles for gift certificates and other prizes, giving everyone a chance to win.
⛺ Overnight Camping
Not ready for the night to end?
Bring your tent and enjoy complimentary dry camping on the property.
Camping Details
• Dry camping (no electric or water hookups)
• Restroom available
• No shower facilities
• Bring your own tent and overnight supplies
• No campfires permitted
Wake up surrounded by friends, enjoy a relaxed morning, and head home refreshed.
📝 Event Information
✔ Couples, Single Women & Single Men are welcome
✔ First-time lifestyle guests are always welcome
✔ Advance ticket deposit is required
✔ Attendance is limited to approximately 60 guests to maintain a comfortable, social atmosphere
✔ Free on-site parking
✔ Casual summer attire recommended for the BBQ
✔ Feel free to arrive anytime after 4:00 PM
✔ Rain or shine — the indoor MERGE event space ensures the fun continues regardless of the weather
✔ Respect, communication, discretion, and enthusiastic consent are expected from all guests
🎒 What to Bring
• BYOB (your favorite beverages)
• Lawn chair
• Tent and overnight bag (if camping)
• A positive attitude
• An open mind
🌱 New to the Lifestyle?
You're not alone.
Many of our guests are attending one of their very first lifestyle events. MERGE was created to be welcoming, comfortable, and respectful for both newcomers and experienced guests alike.
There is absolutely no expectation to play. Many people simply enjoy the food, conversation, and social atmosphere. Others choose to observe, while some discover connections that naturally develop as the evening progresses.
Whether you're curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, you'll find a friendly community that believes great connections begin with great conversations.
Move at your own pace. Your comfort always comes first.
Come hungry.
Stay curious.
Meet new people.
Laugh a little.
Connect naturally.
Leave with unforgettable memories.
We can't wait to welcome you.
MERGE
Curiosity • Chemistry • Connection
CHECK OUT OUR WEBSITE: Merge-Lifestyle.com
Good to know
Highlights
- 9 hours
- To be announced
Refund Policy
Location
To be announced