Question 1

How does speed dating work?

Accepted Answer

Each speed date will be 2 minutes long, with the speed dating portion being approximately 45 minutes. You never know if you're going to find a friend or flame.

Question 2

What should I wear?

Accepted Answer

Whatever makes you feel fun, flirty and confident. Express your most authentic self.

Question 3

When should I arrive?

Accepted Answer

Doors open at 7:30p. Speed dating starts promptly at 8p.

Question 4

What if I'm nervous?

Accepted Answer

We get it, meeting strangers can be intimidating but we're here to help! We value a fun and safe environment and do everything we can to make sure our guests feel confident and comfortable. Our hosts are around to ease the nerves and we provide conversation cards for the speed dating portion.

Question 5

What if I like someone that I meet at friend or flame?

Accepted Answer

We encourage you to follow them on socials or grab their number to keep the flame burning. We provide "I like you" cards at check-in that makes it easy to exchange information.

Question 6

Why spend my night with friend or flame?

Accepted Answer

Dating apps are exhausting, right?! So we created these events with the intention to meet people IRL and spark deeper connections.

Question 7

What if I'm Bi, Pan, or Omnisexual? What if I have more than one dating preference?

Accepted Answer

If you're interested in more than one type of preferred suitor, we recommend attending both our str8/queer events in order to meet anyone & everyone! Bi/Pan/Omnisexual Edition events are coming soon!

Question 8

I'm non-binary. Is there an event for me?

Accepted Answer

Any and all expressions are welcome at any of our events!

Question 9

What if I am outside of the listed age range?

Accepted Answer

The suggested age range is a soft guideline. If you are over 40, you are still absolutely welcome to attend and we’d love to have you! Our aim is to host events with varying age ranges in the near future, to allow even more opportunity for preferential matches. 21+!!

Question 10

What if I arrive late? Will I still have a chance to speed date?

Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, we cannot guarantee you'll be able to date if you arrive after the listed start time for our speed dating portion. Please arrive on time in order to check in and grab your seat. If you are running late, feel free to send us a dm on IG, so we may do everything we can to accommodate!

Question 11

Are your events accessible for guests with disabilities?

Accepted Answer

We value inclusion and access for all participants and are happy to provide special arrangements at our events. Please contact us at: info@friendorflame.com with any accommodation requests prior to the event so we may be able to better serve you.

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