Lesbian Speed Dating in LA (all ages)

An ultra fast & playful version of speed dating. Quick conversations to help you gauge chemistry! Meet other Sapphic singles

✨ Speed Dating at Sassafras (with a Renaissance Fair After-Party!)

Hi gorgeous — here’s the plan for the night.

Meet a room full of singles in fast, fun, low-pressure mini dates, then stick around for a themed party and see who you want to keep talking to.

The vibe is playful, social, and way more fun than another night of swiping.

💫 Schedule

7:00 PM — Sassafras opens
Feel free to arrive early if you want to grab a drink and settle in. It’s usually nice and quiet before things get started.

7:20 PM — Speed dating check-in
Please find your host between 7:15 and 7:30 so we can get everyone seated.

7:40–8:20 PM — Speed dating rounds on the patio
You’ll meet a series of singles in quick, fun conversations.

Afterwards — Keep the night going!
Starting at 9 PM, Sassafras will have music, a food vendor, and entertainment, so you can hang out, mingle, and keep chatting with anyone you connected with.

👑 Theme: Renaissance Fair

The party after has a Ren Fair theme, so feel free to dress up if you’re feeling festive.

(Corsets, cloaks, knights, fairies… all welcome.)

🍸 Venue Love

Please purchase one drink upon arrival to support the venue and their staff.
(Mocktails are available!)

Find your host near the bathrooms/patio entrance to check in.

💌 A Quick Note

We encourage guests to exchange contact info in person with anyone you'd like to see again that night.

Think of the speed dating as the introduction — the party after is where you can continue the conversation.

🎟 Tickets

$20 with advance RSVP
$30 day-of (if spots remain)

Events often fill up, so grabbing tickets ahead of time is strongly recommended.

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