Question 1

How many people will be there?

Accepted Answer

We expect between 8 and 25. Each one is different. We appreciate the sense of adventure with never knowing exactly who will be there until we begin.

Question 2

What is the ratio of men to women?

Accepted Answer

We do nothing to control gender ratios yet often the ratio of men to women is about equal. But not always. We invite you to explore your comfort zone, even in small ways - but only do what you want.

Question 3

What if I get aroused?

Accepted Answer

Arousal is a function of your nervous system. Very few of us have voluntary control over our arousal. We do however have control over our behavior. You are promising to keep this event platonic with nourishing, not exciting touch. If arousal happens, take a break, grab a snack, or come talk to me.

Question 4

Can I arrive late?

Accepted Answer

If you have attended Community Cuddles before and if you get permission ahead of time then yes. Otherwise, no. This is a closed event and we start building safety and trust right from the beginning.

Question 5

Can I wear gender affirming clothing (even if it's not what people expect)?

Accepted Answer

Please wear what feels good to you! We require a minimum of a t-shirt and long shorts and no shoes for all attendees. Other than that you are invited to wear any fabrics, colors, layers, and articles of clothing that feel good to you. Skirts welcome with shorts underneath.

Community Cuddles *ARVADA* March 27th, 2026

Community Cuddles ARVADA March 27th, 2026