Gabrielle Mendoza from Bhakti Collective
I never quite understood why singing made me feel so exceptionally uplifted. Long before I understood the nervous system, I simply knew there was something about using my voice—especially alongside others—that made me feel more open, connected and alive.
Over time, my journey into Bhakti Yoga, the yoga of devotion, gave this experience another dimension. Singing became more than something that made me feel good. Through mantra, kirtan and devotional song, it became a practice of softening—of loosening my grip on the self and offering my voice to something larger than me.
My studies of the nervous system later helped me understand some of what I had already experienced intuitively. Singing engages the breath, can support parasympathetic regulation, and is associated with neurochemical processes involved in pleasure, bonding and social connection. When we sing together, rhythm, breath and voice can also become powerful cues of connection and safety.
But perhaps what moves me most cannot be reduced to physiology alone.
I believe singing has the capacity to unite humanity.
When we gather in song, something in us can begin to lower its guard. For a moment, we are no longer defined by our roles, backgrounds, beliefs or differences. We listen to one another. We breathe alongside one another. Our individual voices become part of something collective.
Perhaps this is one of the simplest forms of co-regulation: allowing ourselves to feel safe enough in one another’s presence to soften, express, receive and connect.
And perhaps peace begins in much the same way.
Not as some distant ideal that we wait for the world to achieve, but quietly, between human beings. One nervous system meeting another. One voice joining another. One person at a time.
This is what Bhakti continues to teach me: devotion is not only something we feel within ourselves. It can become something we offer outward.
So come as you are. You do not need to know how to sing. You do not need the perfect voice.
Just bring your presence.
Come be part of this community, and let us sing our way towards one another.