Pl@y Parties 101
Hosted by Drago (Phoenix Events NYC)
Keeping with Eventbrite guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup style, explicit, fetlsh or p0rnographic. This an educational workshop and experience with both theory and practical elements as explained in details below.
Do you feel called to the wild world of pI@y parties? Are you searching for a place to let your deepest and darkest desires run free? Are you ready to connect with people in ways that expand your life in unimaginable ways?
Everyone’s arrival to the smex-positive community (and the insatiable events that bring us together) is always right on time. Not a moment too soon nor a moment too late. People come from all different backgrounds and walks of life. Levels of experience vary and the spectrum of what people desire is wider than any of us realize!
Welcome! We are so glad you made it here!
This workshop is for newbies, veterans, and everyone in-between! Our main focus will be on the nature of pI@y parties and how to make the most of your experience.
💡 What We’ll Explore: (This is a discussion based workshop and not a party)
❓ What Are PI@y Parties? – What they are, what happens at them, and what to expect (and not expect) when attending.
🎭 Etiquette, Consent, Boundaries & Safety – A deep dive into the cultural norms that shape our events, including how to navigate shared space with care and integrity.
🧘 Building Comfort – The right mindset will keep you grounded at pI@y parties and make your energy magnetic to others! We'll discuss how to be fully present to connect with the energy of the space and the people within it.
💬 Communication for Everyone’s Comfort – Tools for navigating conversations, expressing your needs and desires, and creating interactions that feel good for all involved.
🌀 Intentions vs. Letting the Night Unfold – Exploring the pros and cons of coming in with a specific goal versus letting the night reveal her own plan.
👯 Navigating Parties Alone, With a Date, or in a Group – How your social dynamic can shape your experience, and how to move through different scenarios with confidence.
🌱 Community Beyond the Party – Why pI@y parties are more than just one-night experiences, and how they can open the door to deeper community and connection that lasts beyond the event.
💓 Managing Emotions – Tips for recognizing and working with anxiety, discomfort, fears, pressure, or other unexpected feelings that may arise.
Workshop Format:
Discussion & Practical Exercises: Through a mix of group and partner discussions, you’ll interact with others, practice communication techniques, and gain feedback to build confidence.
Solo & Group Work:
- Attend solo or bring a partner. Couples can stay paired or explore practicing with others.
- You’ll have opportunities to practice with both familiar partners and new acquaintances to simulate established dynamics and/or pickup scene scenarios.
- Expect communication-based exercises in partners and/or small groups. You can also opt out at any time and observe others.
Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want. There is a space to change if needed.
After-Hours:
After the workshop we will have social time to practice what you have learned in a low pressure and relaxed environment. Engage at your own comfort level—whether that means observing, casually chatting by the snacks, or connecting with others from the Workshop. Non sex-based.
Please Acknowledge:
It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: klnk and lntimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.
Pricing:
● Workshop: Early Bird $30, Classic $40
● Workshop and After-Hours: Early $55, Classic $75
LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS
To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available. Refund requests must be made up to seven days prior to the even.
You can RSVP, join the event chat, and connect with people before:
https://plra.io/m/org/pagans-paradise
Questions or concerns?
📧 Email: PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com
🌐 Website: PagansParadise.com
📸 IG: @pagansparadise | @phoenixevents.nyc
