Wednesday, May 14

✨Turned On Series: Kink & Authenticity (Part 2) ✨

Join us for a night of exploring kink and authenticity, where we'll dive into owning your desires without any shame!

By Beyond Vanilla Therapy

Date and time

Wednesday, May 14 · 4:30 - 6pm PDT

Location

Online

Refund Policy

Refunds up to 7 days before event

Agenda

6:30 PM - 7:00 PM

Opening Ritual + Mini-Lesson:

Letting Go of the Good Girl/Boy Role - We’ll open with a grounding ritual to settle into your body and set the tone for authentic exploration. After we establish community agreements and consent prac...

7:00 PM - 7:30 PM

Reflection + Real Talk

Reclaiming Your Turn-Ons Without Apology - We’ll move into a guided journaling experience to explore the stories and scripts that have shaped your sexuality. You'll be invited to reflect on where you...

7:30 PM - 8:00 PM

Somatic Integration + Closing Ritual

Embodying Your Authentic Desires - We’ll close with a body-based practice designed to release shame and reconnect you to your inner authority. You’ll leave with affirmations that anchor your truth a...

About this event

Event lasts 1 hour 30 minutes

✨ Turned On: A 3-Part Workshop Series for the Kinky & Curious ✨
Hosted by Beyond Vanilla Therapy, this virtual series is for Black singles, couples, and curious minds who are ready to dip their toes—or dive deep—into the world of kink and pleasure-based connection.

In Part Two, Kink & Authenticity: Owning Your Desires Without Shame, we’re going deeper. This workshop invites you to peel back the layers of performance, perfection, and people-pleasing so you can explore what it means to be fully, unapologetically you—in your pleasure, your kink, and your truth.

This experience isn’t about getting it “right”—it’s about getting real. Together, we’ll explore how shame disconnects us from our desires and how kink can be a tool to reclaim our power, voice, and sensuality.

You’ll leave with:
🔥 A clearer understanding of what authentic desire feels like in your body
🖤 Tools to release shame and step into your turn-ons with confidence
🧠 Reflective prompts to explore what’s holding you back from being fully seen
🌿 A grounding practice to help you regulate your nervous system and embody your truth

This is a space where your softness, boldness, and truth all belong. Show up messy, curious, quiet, or loud—just show up as you. We’ll meet you there. 💋

Frequently asked questions

Who is this workshop for?

This space is for Black singles and couples who are curious about kink, ready to explore their desires, and committed to showing up authentically. No experience necessary—just a willingness to learn and unlearn.

Do I need to be “into” kink to attend?

Nope. You just need to be curious. Whether you're brand new to kink or already exploring, this workshop meets you where you are.

Will we be doing anything sexual in the workshop?

No sexual activity will take place. This is an educational and experiential space focused on self-reflection, embodiment, and building emotional + relational tools. Think grounding, group convo, and guided practices—clothes stay on, minds stay open.

Is this workshop inclusive of all genders and sexual identities?

Absolutely. This is a queer-affirming, trans-inclusive, body-positive space that centers Black folks. All are welcome who show up with curiosity, consent, and care.

Will I have to share personal details?

Sharing is always optional. You’re invited to participate at your own comfort level. You can engage deeply without disclosing your whole story.

What should I bring?

A journal or something to write with Water, tea, or anything that helps you feel cozy An open heart, grounded body, and a curious mind (Slippers, crystals, or a weighted blanket? We love that for you.)

Will there be a replay or recording?

To protect the privacy of all participants, this workshop will not be recorded. Come live and soak up the magic in real time.

Organized by

Beyond Vanilla Therapy

Beyond Vanilla Therapy creates liberating, pleasure-centered spaces for Black singles and couples exploring kink, non-monogamy, and mental health. Led by licensed sex therapist Ahri, our events are where curiosity meets confidence—with a little bit of kink and a whole lot of care.