Today more than ever we need better & longer conversations about sex, love, and relationships.

For the first time in human history, we have the luxury of living our best sexual lives, and we have a million questions about how to get there. Yet the taboo and misinformation surrounding sex make it very difficult to have the necessary heart-to-heart conversations. The segregation into our own little echo-chambers makes hearing diverse perspectives even more difficult. And a pandemic forcing us into geographical isolation makes genuine human connection more elusive than ever.

How do we build the sex life we crave?

Where do we find others who want the same things?

How do we figure out what others want or where their boundaries lie?

What’s politically correct in today’s constantly shifting social climate?

How do we keep ourselves and our partners safe from diseases, pregnancies, assault, rejection?

How do we heal from difficult experiences?

Can we be really wild and still be healthy and loved?

Why do we want the things we want in bed in the first place?

Are we normal?

Can we change?

These are some of the most important questions you’ll ever have a chance to ask yourself. And I can’t think of a better way to get some insight and clarity than to come discuss them openly and honestly with other thoughtful, interesting people from different backgrounds and experiences. That is why I'm launching a series of group Zoom events where we tackle thought-provoking, controversial, misunderstood, even challenging questions in a two-way conversational format. Each 120-minute conversation will focus on a specific topic and will go in whichever direction we take it.

Oh, and the best part? It’s pay-what-you-can. Contribute as much as you can, and as much as this experience is worth it to you.

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Woman, man, cis, trans, non-binary, queer, straight, virgin, slut, monogamous, polyamorous, swinger, cheater, cheated-on, kinky, vanilla, sex worker, client of sex workers, survivor of trauma, perpetrator of trauma, young, old, rich, poor, liberal, conservative, white, person of color, religious, nonreligious… Everyone is welcome. We can all learn from each other.

I’ll share my own thoughts and experiences, ask the audience questions, and provide as much encouragement, moderation, and fact-checking as is necessary to have an engaging and respectful discussion. You are welcome to participate as much or as little as you’d like. You can keep your camera on or off. Use your real name, or a pseudonym. Share with us your pronouns, or not. No judgment either way.

Please note: This is a safe space…for uncensored conversations. Abuse will not go unaddressed*. But I can’t promise your feelings won’t be triggered.

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The Zoom audio and chat will be recorded and the recordings may be used in whole or part for future podcasts, articles, or other publicly available uses! If you can’t attend live, buy a ticket and you'll receive the audio recording 24-48hrs after the event!

I can’t wait to chat with all of you!

- Dr. Zhana

PS. For more info about me, check out my website at drzhana.com.

Tentative dates/topics (subject to change)

July 30: Open Smarter Social x Uncensored

August 27: Open Smarter Social x Uncensored

Sex and psychedelics

What to do about pedophilia?

Friendship (with benefits) after breakup?

Should I tell people I have herpes?

Do you like to be sexually objectified?

Are men selfish in bed?

Do you need a verbal yes 100% of the time?

Sex in older age

How to deal with a negative sexual experience?

How to open up a monogamous relationship?

Do men like to be dominated?

Am I normal?

How to orgasm?

Dealing with sexual stigma and shame

Street attention

Sex after sexual trauma?

Double penetration

Can drunken sex be consensual?

Coming out (as trans, queer, poly etc.)

Gender Exploration

Penis Pleasure

Past dates & topics (click the link to purchase the recording)

#1. Dec 3. Intimacy in casual sex

#2. Dec 9. Squirting! (with special guest Kenneth Play) (no recording for this one)

#3. Dec 16. Disclosure: How much to tell my partner about others?

#4. Dec 20. Open Relationships

#5. Dec 29. Sex Under Power Dynamic

#6. Jan 7. Sex Work

#7. Jan 16. The Grey Zone of Consent

#8. Jan 27. Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

#9. Feb 6. Sex Drive High & Low

#10. Feb 17. Jealousy

#11. Feb 27. Anal

#12.Mar 10. Monogamish Relationships

#13. Mar. 20. Kink

#14. Mar 31. Women's Orgasms

#15. April 10. Porn: Harmful or Helpful?

#16. April 21. Bi/Pancuriosity

#17 May 1. Tantra & Pleasure

#18 May 12. Objectification

#19 May 22. Masturbation (in partnership with LELO)

#20 June 2. Flirting in 2021

#21 June 16. Queer Sex & Dating (in partnership with LELO)

#22 July 7. Why (not) date a slut?

#23 July 21: Domination/submission 101 (x LELO) with special guest Valerie Tasso

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