The More, The Merrier: A Road Map to Ethical Non-Monogamy with Andre Shakti

The biggest roadblock to exploring ethical non-monogamy is FEAR.

“I won’t be good at it, so why bother?”

“I get too jealous to ever be able to do non-monogamy.”

“Doesn’t non-monogamy mean cheating, though?”

“Everyone around me would judge me.”

“Isn’t non-monogamy all about orgies and sex parties?”

“I heard that the non-monogamous community isn’t very inclusive.”

“Don’t you need to be super wealthy to have multiple partners?”

“My partner must be suggesting this because I’m not ‘enough’ for them.”

Whatever YOUR fear, Andre Shakti wants to help you acknowledge it, then eradicate it. Andre has almost a decade of alternative relationship experience under her belt. As an educator, advocate, advice columnist and relationship coach for those with non-monogamous identities and practices, Andre approaches non-monogamy with love, levity, and intersectionality. This workshop is geared towards those who are in the initial stages of considering stepping outside of a monogamous framework. Bring your concerns, your compassion, and most importantly, your CURIOSITY!

Andre Shakti is a queer journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and writes about the resistance for Rewire, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, Autostraddle, and more. She frequently lectures, coaches and advises on issues surrounding sexual health, politics and pleasure, gender diversity, sex worker rights, non-monogamy, and queerness. When not working, Andre can typically be found marathoning "Law & Order: SVU" under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is. Andre is the reigning "polyamory pundit" at her non-monogamy advice column, "I Am Poly(amorous) & So Can You!", which you can visit - and submit questions to! - via IAmPoly.net." @andreshakti on Twitter, Andre Shakti on Facebook.