From the Inside Out: Consent, Intimacy & the Feminine Spectrum

From the Inside Out: Consent, Intimacy & the Feminine Spectrum

  • Ages 21+

Come learn about setting boundaries and practicing consent in a safe, cozy space, followed by an introduction to cuddling techniques!

By Charlie Scott

Date and time

Saturday, August 9 · 3 - 8pm EDT.

Location

Jazzy's Cabaret

4 Orange Street New Haven, CT 06510

Refund Policy

Refunds up to 7 days before event

Agenda

3:00 PM - 3:20 PM

Welcome & Settling In

Charlie S.

Arrival, cozy drinks & snacks, soft lighting & ambient music • Overview of our purpose: nurturing a consent-based community foundation for platonic connection • Quiet corner open for reflection or ...

3:20 PM - 4:45 PM

Foundations of Consent: Interactive Workshop

Charlie S.

Azra

• What consent really means & how it shows up in our bodies • The 5 Pillars of Consent • Group reflection + partner activity: asking for and receiving consent • Body language & nonverbal cues pra...

4:30 PM - 5:00 PM

Dinner + Soft Socializing

Nourishing meal is served — eat, sip, and unwind. • Conversation optional • Quiet table & solo journaling space available

5:00 PM - 5:45 PM

Intro to Platonic Cuddling: Principles & Practices

Charlie S.

• What cuddling is (and isn’t): safety, care, and non-sexual connection • Key cuddle values: autonomy, opt-in, non-performance • Cuddle vocabulary + comfort level chart • Gentle group reflection:...

5:45 PM - 6:15 PM

Introduction to Cuddling: Principles & Practices

Charlie S.

Azra

• Facilitator demo: how to ask, how to say “no,” how to receive “no” with grace • Pair practice: make and respond to touch invitations (verbal only or optional light touch) • Debrief: What came up...

6:15 PM - 6:45 PM

Group Consent & Check-in Circle

Charlie S.

• Collective check-in: what feels open, what feels closed • Verbal boundary setting for this and future cuddle spaces • Optional affirmations: “My no is sacred.” “Softness is my strength.”

6:45 PM - 7:15 PM

Closing Reflections + Gratitude Practice

Charlie S.

Azra

• Closing circle: share what you’re taking with you • Optional: write or receive a personal affirmation note • Offer thanks to each other and the space

7:15 PM - 8:00 PM

Gentle Close + Optional Socializing

• Soft music, low lights • Quiet chats, journaling, hugs (only if consensual), or simply resting • Resources & future cuddle event invites shared • Merchan...

About this event

  • Event lasts 5 hours
  • Ages 21+

This isn’t just a workshop — it’s a reclamation.

From the Inside Out is a cozy, powerful space designed exclusively for women and non-gender-conforming folks who are ready to reconnect with themselves and others through consent, boundaries, and affirming (non-sexual, pressure-free) connection.


This is for you if:


  • You’re exhausted by navigating spaces that don’t understand your softness or sovereignty.
  • You crave emotional safety, gentle touch, and mutual respect — not assumptions or performance.
  • You want to understand your boundaries more clearly and communicate them with confidence.
  • You’re curious about platonic cuddling but want it grounded in consent and care.
  • You’re seeking connection — but only the kind that sees all of you.


You don’t need to have the perfect words, the perfect body, or any prior experience.

You just need to show up — and be open to feeling safe, affirmed, and free.


💫 What’s Inside the Space:


🫖 Soft Landing & Warm Welcome


Arrive to tea, snacks, soft music, and gentle lighting. Rest first. No rush here.


💬 Consent, Reimagined


Learn (and feel) what real, enthusiastic consent looks like — through guided reflection, movement, and partnered practice. No pressure. Just truth and clarity.


🧍‍♀️ Boundaries & Emotional Intelligence


Explore where your “yes” lives, what your “maybe” feels like, and how to confidently own your “no.”


🧸 Introduction to Platonic Cuddling


Curious? Nervous? Totally unsure? That’s all welcome here. We’ll gently unpack what safe, affirming, platonic touch can be — and you’ll only participate in what feels aligned.


🌿 Consent Circles, Quiet Corners & Journaling Moments


Reflect. Breathe. Be witnessed. Or take a break and simply be.


💗 Affirmation Cards, Community Connection & Take-Home Tools


You’ll leave with more than good vibes — you’ll carry real, embodied tools for daily life, and a note of care to remind you: you matter.


🧸 Who This Is For:


  • Women (cis + trans)
  • Nonbinary and non-gender-conforming folks
  • Those who have felt excluded, dismissed, or unseen in traditional spaces
  • Anyone craving softness with structure, connection with clarity, and community without compromise


💥 This event is not open to cis men (we have a workshop series for you too!).

Thank you for respecting the space.


🎟 Sliding Scale Ticket Tiers:


We believe in access and equity, so we offer multiple pricing tiers. All tickets include full workshop access, refreshments, printed materials, and take-home goodies.


  • Community Ticket – $35 (limited availability for low-income attendees)
  • Early Bird – $99 (available through July 1st)
  • General Admission – $120
  • Supporter Tier – $155 (helps fund Community Tickets)
  • ✨VIP Soft Soul Ticket – $185 Includes: front row seating, an exclusive care gift, and post-event access to a mini follow-up gathering


💌 What to Expect:


  • Gentle guidance, not forced sharing
  • Choice at every step — opt-in only
  • A judgment-free zone for your softness, tears, laughter, or stillness
  • Dinner provided
  • A beautifully curated, sensory-friendly space to simply be
    🔍 Want to know more before you commit?


We welcome your curiosity.


We’re here to make this space work for you.


🧡 Because the way you feel in your body, in your choices, and in your relationships matters deeply.

Let’s build a new kind of connection — from the inside out.


Frequently asked questions

Who is this event for?

This event is open to women and non-gender conforming folks, including trans women, nonbinary people, genderqueer folks, and others who identify with or feel aligned with feminine and fluid gender experiences. We center softness, safety, and shared understanding in how we gather.

Can I come alone?

Absolutely. Many participants will be coming solo. We’ll create a soft, welcoming atmosphere that encourages new connections without pressure. There’s no expectation to interact more than you feel ready for.

Will this be a queer-friendly space?

Yes — enthusiastically, lovingly yes. This is a queer-affirming, trans-inclusive, and body-positive environment where all identities and experiences are held with care.

What should I bring or wear?

Wear whatever makes you feel cozy, safe, and yourself — think soft layers, socks, sweaters, or whatever helps you relax. You may want to bring: • A water bottle • A journal or notebook (optional) • Your favorite cushion, blanket, or fuzzy friend (optional but welcome)

Will there be food or drinks?

Yes! Dinner will be provided! Please let me know if you have any food allergies prior to the event.

What if I get overwhelmed or triggered?

We’ve built this space with care — but we understand emotions can come up. There will always be a quiet corner available, and trained facilitators are present to offer support if needed. You’re encouraged to take breaks whenever you need.

Is this a sexual or dating event?

No. This is a non-sexual, non-romantic space focused on consensual platonic connection and emotional safety.

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Organized by

Charlie Scott
$35 – $185