Restore and Reconnect: A Transformational Couple's Retreat

💬 Event Summary

You’ve built a life together—careers, businesses, families.You’re still in love. But lately… it’s been hard to feel each other.

You’re not broken. You’re just busy.And the intimacy you’re craving? It’s not lost—it’s waiting to be revived.

Join us for Restore & Reconnect, a transformative 5-hour retreat for couples who are deeply committed but feeling disconnected. Whether you’re stuck in cycles of stress, miscommunication, or intimacy burnout, this experience is designed to bring you back to each other—body, mind, and soul. Or perhaps you just to learn better ways to communicate and interact on a fun day out with your love.

🎙️ Facilitated by Duewa " Kaya Spicer, LCSW-S, CST

Certified Sex Therapist | Clinical Supervisor | Sexologist | Psychedelic Guide | Speaker | Soul Worker

If you’re looking for a therapist who just checks boxes and nods, keep scrolling.But if you’re ready to work with someone who’s deeply trained, wildly intuitive, and unapologetically real—you’re in for a treat.

Duewa "Kaya" Spicer is one of a highly sought-after voices in sex therapy, sacred intimacy, and relational healing today. With over a decade of clinical experience and a magnetic, no-nonsense approach, she’s helped hundreds of couples reconnect, repair, and reignite.

She’s been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, StyleCaster, Women's Health UK Psychology Today, and Mind Body Green and has been invited to speak at universities, national conferences, and Planned Parenthood. Whether she’s teaching therapists, guiding psychedelic healing, or working with couples like you, she brings humor, depth, and transformation into every space she holds.

🌿 What You’ll Experience

• Somatic Communication Tools Practice touch and emotional attunement that speak louder than words.
• Consent & Erotic Presence Sacred, clothed, pleasure-centered connection in a safe container. Learn the connection between sexuality and spirituality.
• Tantric Breath and Connection Practices Drop into presence and reawaken your bond.
• Playful Movement Exercises and Games Rekindle joy and embodied rhythm, no dance experience required!
• Take-Home Intimacy Exercises Take home communication or romantic activities to continue the connection beyond the retreat.

💡 Who's invited to the Cookout aka Retreat!

• High-achieving couples who love each other but feel emotionally or sexually out of sync
• All Relationship Orientations and Genders Welcome!
• Partners ready to slow down, reconnect, and rebuild sacred intimacy
• Partners who are ready for a change.

This is a queer-inclusive, BIPOC-welcoming, sex-positive, and clothed event. All genders, sexualities, and relationship structures are celebrated.

💞 This event is for you IF…

• You love your partner deeply but feel like something’s missing
• You’re successful in life but struggling to feel close in your relationship
• You’ve drifted into “roommate mode” and want to find your way back
• You crave more intimacy—emotionally, physically, or spiritually
• You’re tired of having the same arguments with no resolution
• You want tools to communicate with more clarity, softness, and honesty
• You miss laughing, flirting, or simply feeling seen by your partner
• You’re curious about tantra, somatics, or sacred intimacy—but don’t want it to feel awkward or overly woo
• You’re a queer, BIPOC, or non-traditional couple looking for a space that actually gets you
• You know your relationship is worth fighting for, not fighting in

This is a LGBTQ inclusive event. All gender and relationship orientations are welcome.

Listen up Folks!

🚫 This event is NOT for you if…

• You're not ready to invest time, energy, or care into your relationship
• You avoid emotional growth and prefer to stay stuck in old patterns
• You hate fun, joy, play, and the idea of laughing with your partner
• You’re not open to learning new tools for connection
• You want your partner to change but aren't willing to reflect on your own part
• You're looking for traditional talk therapy—this is embodied, interactive, and heart-centered
• You think intimacy begins and ends in the bedroom (spoiler: it doesn’t)
• You’re not into trying new things… even if they might bring you closer

This is not group therapy or a replacement for couple's therapy.

This retreat is valued at over $1,200—including guided intimacy work, somatic coaching, partner rituals, and curated take-home gifts. You’re receiving the full experience for just $650 per couple ($550 early bird!).

🎟️ Pricing

• 💫 Early Bird (Through July 25): $550 per couple
• 🚪 Regular / At the Door: $650 per couple

Spots are VERY limited to ensure privacy, intimacy and personalized guidance.

Reserve your place now and give your relationship the reset it deserves.

📸 4. Photo Policy

Photography NoticePhotos/videos may be taken during the retreat.Please let a facilitator know if you prefer not to be included.

This is a LGBTQIA inclusive event. All gender and relationship orientations are welcome.

There is no nudity at this event. Must be 21 or older

Sober Event.

Hors d' oeuvers and Beverages will be available