Online Dating Redesigned: Fun, Real, Local (Boulder Edition)

Online Dating Redesigned: Fun, Real, Local (Boulder Edition)

Whether you’re visiting Boulder, settling into a new chapter, or a longtime local looking for a fresh approach to dating, Online Dating Redesigned is a 2-hour, in-person crash course that blends expert insight with personalized support.

Led by Emily Pabst, a ChoiceTech Consultant and Coach with deep expertise in how technology shapes modern decision-making, this experience goes far beyond generic dating advice. Emily helps people navigate complex systems—like dating apps—with a rare, systems-aware approach rooted in decision science, human behavior, and information dynamics. If you’ve ever felt like dating apps weren’t built to deliver what they promise—or that the outcomes don’t match the expectations—we’ll unpack exactly why that is, and what to do about it.

What’s ChoiceTech?
It’s the term Emily uses to describe the digital tools, platforms, and systems—like dating apps—that shape our decisions every day. ChoiceTech influences how we choose, what we expect, and how we interpret success. Understanding these systems can transform frustration into strategy—and help you make better, more intentional dating decisions.

This isn’t just talk—we’ll get into real, live examples. Participants should come prepared with at least one downloaded dating app, an active bio, and data to swipe and explore in real time.

We’ll dig into:

• What dating apps are actually designed to do—and how that clashes with what most people expect from them
• How to work with (not against) the way apps are built, so you can use them on your terms
• The ways identity, goals, and geography (yes, Boulder!) shape your dating experience—and why one-size-fits-all advice often falls flat
• Simple, strategic shifts in your bio, swipe habits, and approach to start attracting more aligned first-date candidates
• Real-time swiping, feedback, and decision-making strategies customized to you

This is a personalized, hands-on session for anyone who’s ready to stop spinning their wheels and start treating dating as a system worth redesigning. It’s collaborative, conversational, and completely free of pickup artist nonsense.

You’ll walk away with:

• A systems-level understanding of why dating feels harder than ever, how dating apps influence your behavior—and what to do about it
• A new framework for using apps as tools for self-discovery, pattern recognition, and building a more aligned dating pool
• Personalized insight into how your goals, identity, and local context (like Boulder!) shape what the apps deliver—and how to navigate that with more intention
• Tangible, meaningful shifts to your habits, expectations, and app strategies that reflect your reality, not someone else’s rules

Perfect for:

• People reentering the dating scene
• Anyone new to dating apps or dating in general
• Visitors looking for a unique and insightful local experience
• Frustrated daters ready to shift their approach

Session Details:

• Duration: 2 hours
• Rate: $499 per session — covers 1 to 3 people. This is a fully private session, designed just for your group—no strangers, no blending with other clients.
• Location: Once booked, you’ll get a curated list of fun, local spots to choose from

Come solo or bring a friend or two—it’s your space to get curious, get strategic, and feel more grounded in your dating decisions.

If you want to learn more about Emily’s work, visit remaketherules.com.