IRL STL Speed Dating (30-40)
Speed dating for STL single professionals (ages 30-40) who want real connection. IRL STL: Because chemistry doesn't happen on screens.
Date and time
Location
Pat Connolly’s (upstairs private event space)
6400 Oakland Avenue St. Louis, MO 63139Agenda
6:30 PM - 6:50 PM
Check-in + mingle
6:50 PM - 7:00 PM
Welcome + instructions
7:00 PM - 8:30 PM
Speed dating (4 min. rounds with a 10-15 min. break halfway through)
8:30 PM - 9:00 PM
Wrap up + drinks & open mingling
Good to know
Highlights
- 2 hours
- Ages 21+
- In person
Refund Policy
About this event
IRL STL Speed Dating (30-40)
Forget the apps — this is dating, unplugged. IRL STL is a modern speed dating experience for St. Louis single professionals (ages 30-40 for this event) who want real connection, not just another endless text thread.
You'll meet local singles through a series of casual, low-pressure 4-minute conversations, designed to spark genuine interest (not small talk exhaustion). Every guest gets a free drink ticket on us, plus a match card to help you keep track of who you vibe with.
We handle the structure, you bring the good vibes. Whether you’re looking for something serious or just curious to meet new people, this is a better way to date.
IRL STL: Because chemistry doesn’t happen on screens.
Frequently asked questions
This event is designed for single professionals ages 30-40 who live in the St. Louis area and are looking to meet others for dating, connection, and fun conversation — no apps required.
Just yourself! We’ll provide everything you need: a drink ticket, match card, pen, name tag, and instructions when you arrive.
Think date-night casual. Something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and like yourself.
We aim for a balanced group of men and women. Exact numbers vary by event, but the structure is designed so you’ll meet a variety of people in short, timed rounds.
That’s the beauty of speed dating — conversations are just 4 minutes. You move on quickly, and only match with people you're interested in.
Yes! The event will be hosted by the IRL STL team, who will explain how everything works and keep the evening flowing smoothly.
You’ll turn in your match card at the end of the night. If there are mutual matches, we’ll follow up with your results via email within 24–48 hours so you can take it from there.
Absolutely! Bring a friend who wants to speed date as well, just make sure they grab a ticket, too. You'll have time to mingle and chit chat before and after the event.
You’ll receive a drink ticket as part of your registration, and additional drinks will be available for purchase at the bar. This event does not include food, but light snacks may be available depending on the venue.
This particular event is for straight singles, but we host events for other communities as well. Follow us on TikTok and Instagram or join the email list to stay in the loop!
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