How to Be a Fem Dom is a practical and empowering class designed for women and femme-identifying individuals who want to explore or refine their dominant side in BDSM play. Whether you're brand new to the concept of fem domming or looking to sharpen your skills, this class offers a safe, welcoming, and inclusive environment where curiosity is celebrated. We'll start by unpacking myths and stereotypes about dominatrixes and female dominance, and move into discussions about authentic power exchange, consent, and communication.
Through demonstrations, discussion, and optional hands-on exercises, you'll learn essential techniques such as voice and presence, basic bondage, impact play, and psychological dominance. We'll also cover scene negotiation, aftercare, and how to create fulfilling dynamics that honor your desires and those of your partner(s). This class prioritizes confidence-building, boundary-setting, and safety, so you can step into your dominance with clarity and creativity.
Whether your interest is playful, sensual, disciplinary, or all of the above, you'll leave with tools to express your unique flavor of dominance. Come as you are—curious, nervous, bold, or badass—and discover what being a Fem Dom means for you. No partner or previous experience required. All genders are welcome to attend and learn, but the focus will remain on centering femme/female experiences of dominance.
About the Instructor: Coming soon!
All of our classes are intended for people 18 years of age and older. Spaces are limited, so reserve your spot now!
