HMU Academy: Meaningful Service for D/s

This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.

About the Class

This class will give real-world advice for any power dynamic-based relationships/interactions, whether for a scene or for long term 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange).We will explore:

• Service Dynamic: Understanding your current dynamic and potentially the ways in which you may want to morph your dynamic.
• Love: Understanding how you express your love -- and how you can better express it more often, even when you're apart or long distance.
• Values: Realizing your shared values.
• Meaningful Service: Curating service that speaks to your love languages and values.
• Reality: Understanding your/partner's finite resources (physical and mental).
• Eroticization: Service may not always be always sexy or fun. Learn ways to physically and mentally eroticize service.
• Enforcement: Fostering service through protocols/rules (directly or self-monitoring) and/or punishment (mental/physical).
• Acknowledgement/Appreciation: Acknowledging service in a way that your s-type feels praised/rewarded/encouraged.
• Support: Seeking out a community so you can learn from your peers.This class is for anyone who knows they'd like to be in a relationship involving service -- even if you aren't in that relationship right now.This class will involve a worksheet which you can fill out on your own or with partner(s). I recommend you bring a notebook to take additional notes.

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

A notebook and a pen/pencil to take notes.

FAQ: what should I wear?

Streetwear.

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class offers something for everyone interested in service.

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Come on your own, with a friend, or with partner(s)!

About Your Instructor

Knotasha (she/her) is a s*x educator and fet!sh model who has been actively in the k*nk scene for over a decade. She has taught and co-taught at venues and k*nky conventions such as HitMeUp Academy, K*nk dot com, Soho House, Westcoast Bound, KinkFest, Thunder in the Mountains, and DomCon. Knotasha loves showcasing the nuance and spectrum of k*nks so folx realize they're not alone in their desires. Knotasha also loves giving folx plenty of tools and tips so they can explore at their own pace.

IG / X: KnotashaNYC

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