Experience extreme elegance made real in an afternoon of exotic teas, delicious treats, and fashionable taste. Welcome to Murder They Wore’s Bay Area High Protocol Tea Party.

This event will include performances, ritual ceremony of dominance and submission, lessons around participating in this sophisticated tradition, and the opportunity to dress to impress with unique fashion in leather, latex, lace, or pvc.

Rules:

You must abide by the dresscode below. There will be an organizer checking for dresscode at the door. [It is ok to bring your outfit in a bag!]

Doors will close at 4PM. You will not be allowed in even if you have paid -- You will not receive a refund.

Zero tolerance policy for speech that expresses hate or encourages violence towards a person or group based on something such as race, religion, sex, or sexual orientation. You will be asked to leave the premises immediately.

No pictures may be taken without a badge that shows that you are a designated photographer or content creator. At the door you will be asked if you would consent to have your photos taken or not.

This is NOT a play party. Kink play will be performance-based and hand-picked and curated by organizers before the event. If you are interested in presenting or showcasing, contact murdertheywore@gmail.com.

Interested in volunteering? Email murdertheywore@gmail.com for the opportunity for discounted or free admission.

Are you a part of the D/s [Dominance/submission] culture? Please email murdertheywore@gmail.com with your scene name and fetlife handle for special access for this event.

Dresscode:

Murder They Wore is a fetish fashion brand that strives to create a space for extreme elegance and killer looks especially around latex, leather, and other parts of fetish fashion culture.

This dresscode is enforced to preserve and celebrate fetish fashion culture and create a space for those who love it. There will be confirmation at the door for dresscode (even if it just comes in a bag!) and if your fashion does not abide by our dresscode, you will be turned away with no refund. This is a space to challenge your and society’s fashion limits and to continue to grow through education and an interaction with an exclusive society that immerses itself in unique and artistic forms of beauty from elegant to extreme.

High Fashion Fetishwear: Leather, Latex, Lace, PVC, etc.
No nudity
No sports leggings or jeans -- even in a dark wash
Sports jackets and suits allowed only with another piece of fetish fashion (leather, latex, etc.)
Same with daytime party dresses - must at least be accessorized with a fetish fashion add-on (leather, latex, etc.)

Still confused or not feeling confident about how to dress? Contact murdertheywore@gmail.com with questions or to book a styling session! Styles will be on sale at the venue as well.

Want to attend but the price stopping you?

Email murdertheywore@gmail.com for assistance.

Health & Safety:

Effective September 16, 2022, guests are no longer required to provide proof of full COVID-19 vaccination or a recent negative test in order to enter events or other public spaces. However, we will check for vaccines and temperature. We still strongly encourage all guests to stay up-to-date with their vaccinations. Email us for more questions.

High Protocol Tea Party

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