Question 1

Why do I have to be on time?

Accepted Answer

The Welcome Circle orientation establishes our communication and boundary skills for the evening. This creates clarity and safety that lets everyone relax and know they are on the same page. If you arrive after we begin, sorry, we will not be able to let you in.

Question 2

What should I wear?

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Please bring comfy pajamas or outfits that make you feel sexy (you can wear them on the way over, but expect funny looks on the subway!)  Avoid perfumes and scented products like hairsprays for easier snuggling!

Question 3

Why would I want to snuggle with a bunch of strangers?

Accepted Answer

Some are comfortable with sensual or erotic touch and seek a welcoming space. Others are unsure about touch but come to learn communication skills. Many fall somewhere in between, while some are curious about the experience. First-time snugglers often arrive hesitant but discover common ground.

Question 4

Why would anyone come to a workshop to snuggle?

Accepted Answer

Through our countless facilitated parties, we’ve observed that guests aren’t here just to learn snuggling—it’s the boundaries and communication skills they value most. As these skills improve, a sense of safety emerges, making snuggling natural and enjoyable.

Question 5

What if no one wants to snuggle with me?

Accepted Answer

You always have the choice in how and with whom you engage in touch. Your "no" is celebrated as self-care. If unsure, know you’re not alone—many share this concern, hence it’s in our FAQ. Facilitators are ready to assist in negotiating your comfort with consent.

Question 6

How can I be assured that everyone will respect my choices?

Accepted Answer

Our Facilitators set boundaries and teach communication in the Welcome Circle. We practice asking, communicating, and respecting choices. Mistakes can happen--we're human after all! Good thing you have new tools to use, or, ask Facilitators for help anytime.

Question 7

Is this a dating event?

Accepted Answer

It’s not a hook-up or dating scene. While friendships and even relationships have sparked, it’s primarily about sensual connection and nurturing touch. If you seek a dating-focused event, check out our Tantra Speed Date® now in over 50 cities!

Question 8

Do I have to snuggle with everyone?  What if I just want to snuggle with certain people?

Accepted Answer

You're never obligated to snuggle with anyone you're not comfortable with. While you can choose whom to engage with, remember it's not a dating environment. After the Welcome Circle sets the tone and rules, many find comfort with everyone present.

Question 9

Awesome, how do I get started?

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Desire Lab NYC (A Sensual Evening of Consensual Exploration)

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