Dear Lover: A 2-Part Online Workshop for Individuals & Couples

Dear Lover is a 2-part online workshop (see dates below!) that blends sex education with experiential practices to help you explore what you long for in sex and intimacy — and find the words to bring those desires to life.

When was the last time you put your longings into words? Have you ever painted a vivid picture of what you truly want to experience sexually — beyond the basics of orgasms or blowjobs?

Knowing who you are erotically is the first step toward not only better sex for yourself, but becoming a better lover to others. With a deeper erotic understanding of yourself comes greater confidence, clearer boundaries, and an expanded menu of possibilities to keep sex alive, playful, and endlessly interesting.

What You’ll Experience

Over two evenings online, you’ll:
💗 Excavate your unique core desires — the emotional and erotic states you crave most.
🎭 Explore the dimensions and “genres” of sex that turn you on (from romantic to primal, spiritual to kinky).
📝 Put your longings into words with a powerful Dear Lover letter — an erotic blueprint you can share with a partner (or keep for yourself).

You’ll Walk Away With

🌹 A deep understanding of what you truly want to feel in sex and intimacy
🌹 Insight into the “genres” that spark your turn-ons — and language to talk about them with lovers
🌹 Reduced shame, more clarity, confidence, and playfulness
🌹 A personalized Dear Lover letter, capturing your erotic truth

Who It’s For

This series is for individuals and couples who are ready to expand their erotic self-awareness and cultivate more satisfying connections.

And no — both partners don’t need to attend for it to make an impact. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave with a deeper erotic knowledge and acceptance of yourself.

Structure

This workshop unfolds over two parts, giving you time for fuller exploration and deeper integration.

Part 1: Excavate Your Unique Core Desires

📅 Monday, Nov 10 | 6:30–7:30 pm ET

Desire isn’t just about what you want to do — positions, toys, techniques, kinks. One of the most foundational aspects of erotic self-understanding is knowing how you want to feel through sex and intimacy.

Do you long to feel cherished? Desired? Free? Powerful? Naughty? Safe? Connected? Capable? Not responsible for anything? Totally in control… or deliciously out of it?

These are just a few examples of core desires — the emotional states we crave through sex and connection. The options are infinite. Knowing your unique core desires is the key to the most connected, satisfying, healing, and hot sex of your life.

In Part 1, you’ll be guided through visualization and journaling exercises to help you excavate the feelings that are most important and arousing for you.

Part 2: Expand Your Sexual Menu and Give Voice to Your Desires

📅 Monday, Nov 17 | 6:30–7:45 pm ET

The next step in deepening your erotic self-knowledge is identifying the words, gestures, actions, experiences, pace, and qualities that cultivate your core desires — many of which may not even be overtly sexual.

Just like you have favorite movie genres, you have favorite sex genres. We’ll explore these to help expand your menu of options when it comes to what you enjoy sexually.

Then, you’ll start putting it all on paper in the form of a Dear Lover letter — hot, playful, tender, or whatever your unique vibe may be.

Why This Matters

Most of us never take the time to name our core desires or define what we truly want to experience through sex and intimacy. No wonder we get tongue-tied when trying to tell a partner what we want — or don’t want.

We’ve rarely been given permission to claim the feelings, settings, and experiences that are both exciting and healing for us. Without this clarity, sex can stay on the surface: fine, but not truly fulfilling.

When you deepen your erotic knowledge of yourself, everything changes.
✨ Sex gets hotter, deeper, and more playful.
✨ Emotional intimacy expands.
✨ You feel more sexually confident and empowered.

Details & Pricing

📅 Part 1: Monday, Nov 10 | 6:30–7:30 pm ET
📅 Part 2: Monday, Nov 17 | 6:30–7:45 pm ET

🎟 Early Bird: $45 (save $10 through Oct 31)
🎟 Regular Price: $55
🎟 Couples / Friends: $69 😉 (2 tickets, save $20 on each!)

Meet Your Teacher

Allie Andrews is a sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and somatic educator who helps people reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and authentic erotic selves. Her work is rooted in embodiment and the belief that pleasure is both healing and essential.

Through her workshops and coaching, Allie creates compassionate, shame-free spaces for exploration — where pleasure, connection, and play lead the way to more fulfilling sex and deeper intimacy.

Learn more about Allie at allie-andrews.com.