COME TO THE TABLE | June 12 | Faith-Based Dating 40+ An Evening of Elegance
A thoughtfully curated evening with live music, hors d'oeuvres, cocktails, prayer & connection for faith-based singles 40+.
Date and time
Location
The Brinkerhoff Mansion
1500 North 5th Street Springfield, IL 62702Refund Policy
Agenda
6:15 PM - 6:30 PM
CTT Evening Flow: Doors Open
6:30 PM - 6:50 PM
CTT Evening Flow: Sip, Snack & Spark
6:50 PM - 7:00 PM
CTT Evening Flow: Welcome & Opening Prayer
7:00 PM - 8:00 PM
CTT Evening Flow: Guided Conversations
8:00 PM - 8:30 PM
CTT Evening Flow: Second Glance & Prayer for safe travels
About this event
- Event lasts 2 hours
- Free venue parking
You’re Invited to step back in time, away from the apps & COME TO THE TABLE!
A thoughtfully curated networking experience infused with grace & intention for faith-based singles
NO SPEED DATING. NO SWIPING. JUST A SEAT WITH YOUR NAME ON IT.
Whether you're navigating life after divorce, loss, or simply haven't dated in years—Come to the Table is designed for those who’ve done the work, taken time to heal, and are ready to step forward with hope. This space is not for rebounds, but for restoration. For those ready to connect with sincerity, emotional maturity, and a renewed spirit.
Set inside the historic Brinkerhoff Mansion, every guest is thoughtfully vetted and graciously invited—like someone you'd welcome into your own home.
🌱 Your evening includes:
- Live music & hors d’oeuvres
- One signature cocktail included (2 alcoholic drink max - tracked by bartender)
- Relaxed Tablemate conversations
- Opportunities to mix and mingle
- A refined, welcoming setting to connect face-to-face
📋 Important Details:
- Ages 40+
- Limited to 24 men and 24 women
- Event ticket: $75
- A one-time background check ($25 fee paid directly to SafeScreener) is required before final confirmation.
SafeScreener is The Table Collective’s selected 3rd-party platform, registered in Illinois since 2004, A+ rated by the Better Business Bureau, and trusted by faith-based organizations nationwide.
✅ Please note: TTC will never receive your Social Security number as part of this process.
This step helps us ensure a safe and welcoming experience for all guests, rooted in integrity and care.
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Seats are limited—and filling fast.
If your preferred date is full, we’ve just opened a waitlist RSVP for June 26—our next thoughtfully curated evening of connection.
👉 Join the June 26 Waitlist right here on Eventbrite to be first in line when full registration opens.
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A Note About What’s Next: After attending Come to the Table, you’ll receive a special invitation to become a TTC Chairholder —our exclusive VIP membership within The Table Collective.
TTC Chairholders receive access to additional exclusive TTC-sponsored gatherings throughout the month, along with elevated VIP perks designed to deepen connection, enrich your experience, and support faith-based friendship, networking, and maybe even love.
TTC Chairholders will also be thoughtfully highlighted and celebrated within our growing community—because when you take a seat at the table, your story matters.
🌟 If you’ve ever wished dating felt more personal, more intentional, and more sacred—this space was created for you.
Frequently asked questions
Not at all. Come to the Table is a thoughtfully hosted gathering for singles (40+) who are serious about faith-based connection. Think relaxed yet structured conversation with intentional introductions & mix/mingle time in a warm atmosphere with live music, hors d'oeuvres & signature cocktails.
Date-Night Smart – polished, put-together, and ready to connect. Think stylish but comfortable—not overly casual, not overly formal. Come as the best version of your everyday self. Men's suit coats & women's dresses/pantsuits welcomed. Additional suggestions available @thetablecollective.com
You’re in good company. While Come to the Table is a romantic-minded event, many Tablemates come hoping to meet people for friendship, business connections, and faith-based community. Our conversation prompts make space for all of that.
No problem at all. Your ticket includes one drink (with a two-alcohol drink max), and we’ll have delicious mocktail versions of our signature cocktail as well.
YES. The $25 non-refundable fee is paid directly to SafeScreener, an accredited, BBB A+ rated third-party provider trusted by faith-based organizations nationwide. The process is secure and takes just a few minutes. ? TTC will never receive your Social Security number as part of this report.
Come to the Table holds deep respect for all individuals, but our events are uniquely designed for faith-based men and women seeking heterosexual connection.
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Our flagship event—Come to the Table—offers an elegant, curated alternative to online dating: think live music, meaningful prompts, and a setting that feels more like a modern-day meet-cute (in a mansion no less!) than a singles mixer (or the dreaded speed dating)!
Whether you're stepping back into the world of dating or simply looking to meet people of substance, you’ll find a seat waiting for you!