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15 Seriously Steamy Valentine’s Day Events for Gettin’ Sexy

By / January 10, 2019

Roses are great and chocolate is lovely, but if you’re looking for something a little sexier this Valentine’s Day, NYC is the place to be. Embrace the erotic at these 15 events, ranging from sweetly sexy (like a guided tour at the Museum of Sex) to downright erotic (like a massage class for you and your partner).


Be Your Own Bae: Self-Love 101

Babeland Brooklyn

Sip sparkling wine and enter the raffle for some fun take-home prizes at this free Babeland workshop that's all about self pleasure.


Body Painting Workshop for Couples

Feb 8, 6:00 PM and 8:30 PM


Pre-game for Valentine's Day with your beau at this playful, UV-lit body painting workshop for all artistic skill levels.

$149 / RSVP

Black Light and Bondage Paint Night

Newark, NJ

Enjoy complementary sangria and dinner at this pre-Valentine's paint and sip night, featuring a live UV rope bondage demonstration.

$45 - $55 / RSVP

Aphrodisiac Tasting Dinner

RDV-Rendezvous Harlem

Savor a French-Mediterranean five-course dinner, perfectly paired with wine and full of aphrodisiac ingredients to get you in the Valentine's Day mood.

$150 - $215 / RSVP

Couples Erotic Massage Class

3F Studios

Bring your paramour(s) to this sensual nude-inspired class, where you'll get a hands-on lesson on how to give a luxurious, intimate massage to your partner.

$100 - $195 / RSVP

Amateur Burlesque Night

House of Yes

You might find yourself on stage at this free amateur burlesque night, where first-timers of all genders will strut their stuff and take it off for door-based donations.


Love Thyself: A Self-Pleasure Workshop

3F Studios

This workshop for women and trans/non-binary people will take you through a meditation session and other exercises meant to expand your views and understanding of self love.

$30 - $40 / RSVP

Fuck Love Party

House of Yes

This self-proclaimed crazy party invites you to throw caution to the wind for dancing, flirting, kissing, and pushing the boundaries of what constitutes "Love."

$0 - $15 / RSVP
Burlesque Idol 2018

Wasabassco Valentine’s Night Burlesque

Feb 14, 7:30 PM and 11:00 PM

City Winery

Get up close and personal with NYC's "most legendary burlesque troupe" at this scandalous, sexy, and sensational night of performances, hosted at City Winery's intimate Loft space.

$22 - $35 / RSVP

Filthy Gorgeous Burlesque Valentines Spectacular

Highline Ballroom

Grab a drink and raise your glass to live music by Storm Marrero, performing alongside nearly a dozen barely clad beauties at this raunchy night of love-themed burlesque performances.

$30 - $60 / RSVP

Museum of Sex Guided Tour

Every Mon, Thurs, Fri, and Sun at 2:00 PM; Every Sat at 12:00 PM

Museum of Sex

Free with your museum admission, these 90-minute guided tours give you an in-depth look at the themes and concepts behind the Museum of Sex's curated galleries.

   Brynne Levy


House of Yes

Keep the sensual vibes happening all week at this Valentine's-themed presentation of Foreplay, House of Yes' erotic interactive show exploring the relationship between the guests and the performers.

$50 - $70 / RSVP
   Abby Hertz

LUST: A Valentine’s Day Performance

Lot 45

Enjoy dinner served off of naked bodies, followed by R-rated art installations, a cuddle puddle, sensual stage performances all night long, and way more play at this night-long erotic event.

$45 - $175 / RSVP

Nude Art Scavenger Hunt

Metropolitan Museum of Art

Go searching for nudes at the Met, where you'll make new friends and learn the various subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways nudity has been depicted throughout history at the same time.

$33 - $44 / RSVP

Dances of Vice’s Heartbreak Hotel Ball


Surround yourself with the smoky neon romance of the Jazz Age at this noir-tinged night of drinks and dancing, featuring a peepshow cabaret, VIP BDSM suite, and more.

$60 - $575 / RSVP


Quinne Myers is a writer, illustrator, apparel designer, and lingerie industry pundit living in Brooklyn. Loves sweaty concert dancing, eating dessert, feeling feelings, and petting every dog.

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