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Ruby Ryder

Ruby Ryder of, is a podcaster, blogger, sex educator, a published writer and a Pegging expert. Ruby has been a featured panelist at CatalystCon East and West, a speaker on the main stage at the BIL conference, and her erotica is in Violet Blue’s Best Women’s Erotica 2014.

After years of writing erotica which never saw the light of day and too many fantasies about strap-on sex that never became a reality, she heard sex advice podcaster Dan Savage encourage a caller to embrace her kinks. Ruby did just that and has never looked back.

She began to pursue her passion for pegging as well as her collection of various "penetralia". Along the way, she dove down the rabbit hole of pegging, exploring the underlying psychology, the role reversal, the extraordinary levels of prostate pleasure, and the chance for couples to experience sex from the opposite side of the bed. She’s still happily going down that rabbit hole to this day.

Ruby spends her time teaching, consulting, writing erotica and doing everything she can to encourage a sex-positive society. She resides in Southern California near the beach and loves watching the surfers change out of their wet suits.

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