Tantra Speed Date® San Francisco! -Meet Bay Area Singles Speed Dating in SF

This is not the drab traditional speed dating experience you may have had. Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 20 dates in a Puja circle.

Over 15,000 singles have gone on 100,000+ dates in 30+ cities worldwide. 95% have matched with one or more dates. If you don't match, your next event is on us!

Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills. You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.

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• San Francisco, CA - Sat, Nov 26
• San Francisco, CA - Thu, Dec 1
• Silicon Valley, CA - Sat, Dec 17
• San Francisco, CA - Mon, Dec 19
• San Francisco, CA - Mon, Jan 16
• Silicon Valley, CA - Sat, Jan 21
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~ IMPORTANT DETAILS ~

* Please arrive on time to check in and receive your dating materials.

* Ceremony portion begins 30 minutes after start time. Doors will be closed for the duration of the ceremony. LATE ARRIVALS WILL NOT BE ADMITTED. See cancellation/late policy below

* Events do sell out, so purchase tickets online to guarantee your spot. Door tickets are cash only and subject to capacity and gender balance. Tickets are non-transferable and cannot be sold or exchanged.

~ COVID-19 INFORMATION ~

We follow the government and venue guidelines for Covid-19 safety that are in effect at the time of the event. These can change, so please check with your locality. When you arrive at the venue, take a preventative step by washing your hands or use the hand sanitizer we provide. We will have masks for those who need it/want it/or if regulations require. All activities can be modified to be socially distanced by request (your facilitator can guide you through that). If you have cold or flu-like symptoms, or have been exposed, play it safe and stay home. Just let us know and we'll happily refund or transfer your ticket so you can come another time.

~ FAQ ~

What is Tantra Yoga?

Tantra is thousands of years old (of Hindu and Buddhist tradition) and has become a buzzword, which unfortunately has some misleading definitions. Translated from Sanskrit, it means "weaving," which means bringing oneness to yourself and consciousness to what you do. The exercises are designed to bring you into a state of being more present when you meet your dates. And who doesn't want to be more present, right?

What is a Puja?

A Puja is an intentional ceremony. In Sanskrit it means reverence, honour, an offering. It is a ritual designed to open our hearts and allow us to see the inner beauty within ourselves and all beings. It invites us into the elegant dance of masculine and feminine in a warm space of oneness and connection--what a great way to start your first date!

What does it look like?

Participants form two circles facing each other. The men form the outside circle and the women form the inside, with each woman facing a man. Each pair then share a meaningful exchange through a directed exercise (a Puja “station”), which can be for a few seconds or a few minutes. Then they put their hands together in Namaste, thank each other and--like a speed date--rotate to the next person. The ceremony ends when everyone has rotated a full circle.

What if I don't feel comfortable doing the exercises?

Thanks for asking! While the exercises are straightforward and fun, you are always 100% at choice for how you wish to participate. If you find an exercise that doesn't work for you, then--just like in yoga--you have the option to modify or completely opt out. We encourage everyone to participate at their own comfort level, and our facilitators demonstrate what that looks like so everyone is clear before we begin.

What's the age range?

Some events are open and some have a specific age range (stated in the title)--though it's merely a suggestion, not a rule. See our statistics and learn why people love the open events on our FAQ.

What is the covid-19 policy?

We will follow the venue requirements that are in effect at the time of the event. See the Covid-19 Information section the page for your event

What if I don't match with anyone?

As many of our attendees say, "I don't even care if I match with anyone, this was amazing!" That said, we geek out on data. Our statistics say there is a 95% chance you'll match with AT LEAST one person. But if for whatever reason the probability fails you, we've got you covered. Your next ticket will be free!

Why is this experience called 'More than Dating'?

This event is more than just a speed date. It's about bringing more connection, and perhaps healing, to the masculine and feminine within us. That's the juicy part of a connection that makes relationships so fun. Men learn how to hold a grounded masculine space. And when that happens, women can relax into their feminine and not have to do or hold so much. This creates a new way of relating that is easeful and connected, and not something you can ever experience in a bar or on a dating app. We believe this is why people love it so much and why one participant said it will 'restore your hope in dating.'

More questions?

We're happy to answer! See our FAQ or Contact Us.

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~ FACILITATED BY: Deborah ~

Deborah Tantra Kat is a certified Tantric Educator, Bondassage Trainer and Desire Coach, supporting great s*x and incredible relationships worldwide.

Contact: deborah@tantrany.com

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