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San Diego, CA 92120 - Private Residence. Address sent to ticket holders only.

San Diego, CA 92120

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It's Summertime! Grab your fancy hat or ball mask and some comfy pjs and follow us down the cozy rabbit hole to an old style High Tea!

We are proud to present le Café’ du Choix where High Tea and Cuddles are served with a side of consent consciousness and laughter, Wild Hatter style. (Hats and masks are available if you find you've forgoten yours ;-)

Wonder Landing’s Tea and Cuddles is a fun workshop in experiential relating where our guests are always in choice and are considered fully participating just by being there and observing. No interaction is required. Just ask the dormouse who can often be found taking a nap in a nest of fluffy pillows. So follow us down the cozy rabbit hole to a Wonder-Landing of conscious communication and cuddle teatime.

(Limited seats available)

Doors open for Tea starting at 11:00 am where we will enter Le Café’ du Choix, meet, greet and eat tea treats plus any lunchie munchies you care to bring and share.

Please arrive as close to on time as possible for at 11:30 we will proclaim there is no room for more, close the door and begin our valuable Tea and Cuddles etiquette session, creating a safe space for all to enjoy tea, tickles, massage, and more.

If you find you desire to leave after opening tea, we 100% guarantee your money refunded when requested.

Tickets have sold out a week in advance so be sure to get yours soon.

Read on for full itinerary and other details...


San Diego, CA 92120 - Address sent to ticket holders only.


Sunday, July 22nd at 11:00 am to 3:30 pm. (Please arrive no later than 11:30 for safe space creation.)

  • 11:00-11:30 pm: Meet and Greet - Cuddlers arrive, check in, get into proper comfy Tea and Cuddles attire and enjoy tea and treats. (Proper Tea time head attire can be provided if find you have forgotten yours.)

  • 11:30-12:45 pm: Tea and Cuddles Etiquette Session- You must be present through the entire etiquette session to participate in the open cuddle time.

  • 12:45-3:15 pm: Open Cuddle Time - Freestyle consent aware cuddling or socializing

  • 3:15-3:30 pm: Closing Circle - Coming together for gratitudes, closure, and goodbyes


Arrive on time: once we begin the Tea and Cuddles Etiquette session, the doors will close and no one else will be admitted. This creates comfort and accountability by ensuring that everyone has heard the rules and expectations and has agreed to them.

What to wear: pajamas, sweats, yoga attire (Tea party hats, bow ties, masks are optional and fun) - nothing too risqué please. (Think of what an 8-year-old would wear to bed) comfy, not sexy.

What to bring: Non-alcoholic beverages and/or tea time snacks to share. Cuddle accessories are also welcome (e.g., a favorite pillow, blanket, stuffed animals, etc.).

Note, please refrain from wearing fragrances, or other strong scents (soaps, powders). Also, a mini poodle dog lives here. He’ll be staying with a friend this weekend and he is mainly hypoallergenic.


  1. Pajamas stay on the whole time

  2. You don't have to touch anyone at a Cuddle Party®, ever.

  3. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone.

  4. If you are a yes, say YES. If you are a no, say NO.

  5. If you are a maybe, say NO,

  6. You are encouraged to change your mind.

  7. Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.

  8. Get a facilitator if you have a question, concern, or need assistance.

  9. Tears and laughter are both welcome.

  10. Respect people's privacy when sharing about Cuddle Party®.

  11. Keep the cuddle space tidy.

These are explained in greater detail in the Tea and Cuddles Etiquette Session.

If you are new to Cuddle style parties, the following information can provide many answers for you.

WHAT IS CUDDLE PARTY®? (From CuddleParty.com)

Cuddle Party® is … a workshop!

Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable should be learned. The skills of communication, boundary setting, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness are practiced.

Cuddle Party® is led by trained and certified Cuddle Party® Facilitators. The Facilitator’s job is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light-hearted way. We welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.

At a Cuddle Party® you gain:
* Clarity and confidence
* Boundary and communication skills
* Comfort, support and encouragement
* The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch

The skills you learn at Cuddle Party® translate into everyday life, right from the start. When boundaries and consent are clear, every relationship is easier.

Three more great links regarding Cuddle Party®

Reiterating rules (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-IpDGyTwSY)
Tour Landing (https://youtu.be/M_bRe5-T1sk)
A video from our very own Cuddle Crew! (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQA8wXY9EuE)

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