Summer Solstice Cuddle Party @ Peaceful Palace - J

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Peaceful Palace

1 private location

la mesa, CA 91942

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A Cuddle Party® A Conscious Communication & Consentual Connection Event

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Cuddle Party Outline

2:30 pm - Doors Open

2:30-3:00 pm - Arrive, check in and put on pajamas, or cuddle clothing.

3:00 pm - Doors Locked

If you are not here by 3:00pm and have not called, you may not be able to participate. Please call Alex if you will be a few minutes late. My phone number is 619-335-5042.

3:00 - 3:45 pm - Welcome Circle. Attendees MUST be present for the whole welcome circle to participate in Cuddle Party.

3:45 - 6:30 pm - Freestyle Cuddle Time.

6:30 - 7:00 pm Closing circle and goodbyes.


NOTE:  This is a Fragrance-Free gathering. Please refrain using any makeup or products that might rub off on surfaces.

PLEASE DO NOT: Wear any Perfumes, Cologne, Essential Oils, Scented deodorants, Scented Aftershave, Hairspray, Strong-Smelling shampoos or conditioners, and Scented laundry products. We welcome your Freshly bathed self.


Covid Guidelines:

Vaccine / Covid Test (Not Required)

If you Feel Sick or have any Covid-19 Symptoms or recent exposure, we kindly ask that you stay home.

Real Choice & Consent are important to us! Wearing of masks will be optional at the event. We will not be shaming anyone for their choice to take care of themselves by either wearing or not wearing facial coverings. This will be an inside & in-person event, and we can not guarantee that there will be space to physically distance from others by 6 feet.

We do plan on practicing:

Safer cuddling elevator speech to share with others at the event, where individuals will get share with each other some of the following Q&A:

What protocols do you need to feel safe?

i.e. Mask, Distance (how close/far), Touch or lack thereof, &c.

What kind of connection would you like?

What kind of connection would not work for you today?


A Cuddle Party® is a Non-Sexual Event where pajamas stay on! I Welcome you to come and feel & be present with your own Authentic selves, to be Present & Conscious. Tears & Laughter are BOTH welcome. A place where you are invited to feel & express (non-violently).

It's a Place where you get to practice being genuine in you HELL "YES"es & Hell "NO"s! Where "NO" can be and IS considered as a complete sentence, which will be respected without a need for any justification.

Cuddling is more than just fun. It is a healing experience of touch and conscious connection. Cuddling helps our bodies release natural hormones that generate a feeling of peace and well being.

Cuddle Party® features a safe supportive space to explore a wide range of nurturing touch and connection experiences.

The first hour or so is a communication workshop in which you will learn and practice how to ask for what you want in a way that it feels like a gift. You will also learn how to choose; say, "Yes" & "No" & even Change Your Mind in a graceful way.

This is followed by a couple of hours of free-style cuddling where you get to practice the skills learned in the workshop.

You will leave with a greater understanding and connection with YOU, and perhaps a few others who you may have not even met yet.

The Cuddle Party® lasts for about 4 hours: Doors open at 2:30 pm

2:30-3:00 pm arrive, check in and put on pajamas. Please bring clean, comfy. cuddly clothes. Also, bringing a snack and cuddle accessories to share is welcomed :)

3:00 -3:45 pm The Welcome Circle. (This is the InterActive Workshop portion of the event, in which attendees are encouraged to participate). Attendees MUST be present for the whole welcome circle to participate (in order to create a safe container for all those present).

If you are not here by 3:00pm and have not called, you may not be able to participate. My phone number is (619) 335-5042.

3:45 - 6:30 pm Freestyle practice time with affectionate nurturing touch - what we call "Cuddling".

6:30 - 7:00 pm Closing circle, and goodbyes.

Questions? Call (619) 335-5042 or email

Details: "The Rules of Cuddling"

The rules are tried and true, and there’s a logic to them that goes deeper than you might think to create a safe, fun environment for people to connect. At a Cuddle Party® event the first hour or so includes an explanation of the rules that you can put to use everyday. Intrigued? Come check it out!

ARRIVE ON TIME: Once we begin the Welcome Circle and orientation, sorry, we can let no one enter late. This creates comfort and safety by knowing that everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.

WHAT TO WEAR: Pajamas or sweats– nothing too risqué. Think more comfy than sexy. (More drawstrings, less lace! No Super-Short-Shorts or nighties please.) (Think 9 year old comfy pajamas).

WHAT TO BRING: Sorry, no alcohol folks. Juice or sparkling cider is always welcome as are treats and snacks to share. A pillow or stuffed animal if you like. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.


1. Pajamas stay on the whole time.

2. You don’t have to touch anyone at a cuddle party, ever.

3. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)

4. If you’re a yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.

5. If you’re a maybe, say NO.

6. You are encouraged to change your mind.

7. Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.

8. Get your Facilitator or the Assistant if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the event.

9. Tears and laughter are both welcome.

10. Respect people’s privacy

11. Keep the Cuddle space tidy

PAYMENT AND REFUNDS Please pay online using Eventbrite for a guaranteed reservation. Those who arrive at the door may find that the event is full. If you reserve and then find you cannot make it I will give you a credit for the next cuddle party if ask for it and let me know at least 3 hours before the event. There is no refund or credit if you don't show up. However, if you come and then leave after the welcome circle I will give you a complete refund.

If you feel drawn to come and find the cost out of your reach please email or give me a call..

Please direct your questions to Alex at (619) 335-5042 or

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Peaceful Palace

1 private location

la mesa, CA 91942

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Refunds up to 7 days before event

Eventbrite's fee is nonrefundable.

Organizer Alex TW D.D.

Organizer of Summer Solstice Cuddle Party @ Peaceful Palace - J

Dr. Alex is a lover of life and a natural born Cuddler.
Alex is very passionate about Cuddling and appreciated the Cuddle Party™ methodology so much, that he became a Certified Cuddle Party™ Facilitator.
Alex is a Certified Tantra Facilitator, and has studied & practiced both Daoist & Tantric philosophies & methodologies for over 2 decades. 

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