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Learn new relationship skills & meet new people in a casual, fun atmosphere!

By Tanille Geib, Facilitator

When and where

Date and time

Fri, Apr 21, 2023 6:30 PM - 9:00 PM PDT


888 Fort St 888 Fort Street Victoria, BC V8W 1H8 Canada

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About this event

  • 2 hours 30 minutes
  • Mobile eTicket

Wanna reconnect? Tired of online dating? Nervous to put yourself out there? Join us!

These events welcome and support queer, kinky, and/or polyamorous people, ages 25+. We welcome folks who have deep curiosity, and folks who are in these different communities. Please be compassionate to oneself and others in this space. Thank you.

For the next 5 months, in Victoria, BC (Lekwungen Territory) come learn new perspectives on relationships and connections. How will this all work?!

IN-PERSON Event: Each month we will have a different dating theme. The in-person events are meant to get people practicing connection skills, have fun, and well, connect! In a low pressure environment, this is WAY better than swiping on apps. Everyone in attendance is open to connection in some way, but this isn't a prescriptive "speed dating" type event where you will be expected to begin relationships. Come curious and leave your expectations at the door!

COVID: We will be following all COVID- guidelines and there will be follow up emails if anything changes as we continue to gather. We will aim to provide a community care approach to people’s comfort and needs. Masks will be a personal choice, and respected when chosen. If you have symptoms or testing positive for covid-19, please stay home. Please contact Tanille, if you need a refund based on sickness. hello@tanillegeib.ca

DETAILS: All events will be on the 2nd floor of 888 Fort Street. Someone will welcome you up the elevator at 6:30pm. Event promptly starts at 6:45pm and we won’t accept late arrivals.

6:30-6:45 arrival

645-7 intro

7-740 workshop 1 (half with Tanille, half with Cora)

740-750 break

750-830 workshop 2 (switch groups)

830-9 mingle


Friday Dec 9, 2022 Desire

Friday Jan 20, 2023 Intention & Communication

Friday Feb 10, 2023 Flirting

Friday March 3, 2023 Modern Dating

Friday April 21, 2023 How To Go Deeper (Connection & intimacy)

ACCESSIBILITY: The 2nd floor is accessible through an elevator. Washrooms are for all humans to use, both with wheelchair accessible. We will have dimmer lights for people with light sensitivity in the spaces where we control the lights. We promote a scent free space when possible, please join us in this effort. Please reach out if you have further questions or needs, we will do our best to accommodate. hello@tanillegeib.ca

SNACKS: We will provide tea, fruit, and chocolate. There will be access to water; feel free to bring your own water bottle.


Pass: You can buy a pass for all 5 events before the December 2022 event, there is a discount of $40 if you do. $200 for all 5 events. There are only 10 available so that each event there are new humans attending each event.

One Event or More: Regular tickets are $48/event. (If you come to one, you will be given a 15% discount code for your next time attending.)

Sliding Scale: 5 tickets are reserved for low income BIPOC folks at each event.

Numbers: 20 people max in each event. The event will be canceled if a minimum of 10 people aren’t registered.

QUESTIONNAIRE: A google form will be sent to you to fill out after your purchase to a Slow Burn Event. Please fill this out, so it can help us better prepare. Thank you.

The Facilitators:

Cora Bilsker of Nested Heart Counselling (she/her)

Cora Bilsker isn't your typical therapist. Her counselling practice aims to release shame by proudly declaring her intention to celebrate and support unconventionality. Whether you're queer, non-monogamous, kinky, into psychedelics, a sex worker or modified, you'll find a home with Nested Heart Counselling. Beginning in 2013 as a Registered Social Worker and growing into a team with like-minded others, she now provides business mentorship, consulting, training opportunities, support groups and practicum supervision in addition to working with clients. Cora believes finding pleasure and feeling free to express your true self is a radical and worthy act, essential for survival in this messed up world.


Tanille Geib, Coach & Educator (she/they/hube) (hube is short for Human Being)

Tanille Geib is a 3rd generation settler of Polish, German, Swedish, and French heritage living and breathing on the lands of the W̱SÁNEĆ & Lekwungen Peoples. Tanille is a queer, gender-creative human who loves other humans. Hube is an intimacy coach, sexuality educator, and artist. In the past 7 years she has educated and worked with over 6000 people on healthy sexuality and relationships all over the globe. They are an award-winning Consent Advocate where they support events to create safer spaces and educate communities on the nuances of consent. To find out more about her work, passions, and upcoming events check out their website: www.tanillegeib.ca

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