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Trinity-Pawling School

700 Route 22

Pawling, NY 12564

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Join area high schools for a 2 Part Training Event on Sexual Misconduct, Healthy Relationships and Consent

Part 1: Policy Institute on Sexual Misconduct for School Administrators and Faculty

Part 2: Respect My Red Leadership Training Institute for Students

Location: Trinity-Pawling School, 700 Route 22, Pawling, NY, 12564

Date: Monday, April 29, 2019

Time: 5:30-8pm for Administrators | 5:30- 8pm for Student Leaders and Advisors

Attendees: 11th Grade Student Leaders. Dean of Students. Heads of School. Division Directors. Counselors. Health & Wellness Professionals. Campus Ministers. Campus Safety Officers, Principals, Diversity Directors. Athletic Administrators. Coaches. HR Officers. Communications Directors. Risk Managers. Business Managers, IT Directors.

Resource Kit for First 10 Registrants. The first 10 schools to register will receive the a Resource Kit with the Policy Institute Complete Manual and membership in the International Consortium of Students Against Sexual Violence (ICSASV).

Detailed Schedule for Administrator session - Full Schedule

Detailed Schedule for Student& Advisors session - Full Schedule

All Attendees: 5:30-6:00pm

5:00- 5:30pm: Check-in

5:30pm: Welcome: Mr. Bill Taylor, Headmaster, Trinity-Pawling School and Katie Koestner, President of COS

5:35pm: Fundamentals: Sexual Misconduct

5:45pm: Interactive Case Study: I Said - You Said

6:00pm: Adults will make their way to the Administrator Session

Part 1 - School Administrators: 6:00 - 8:00pm

6:10pm: Policy Session: Fundamentals for Employee and Student Handbooks

6:40pm: Protocol Session: Responding Appropriately to Incidents

7:10pm: Procedures Session: Investigations and Discipline with Risk Management Mindfulness

7:40pm: Prevention Session: Educating and Training for Students and Employees with Research Supported Content

7:55pm: Closing


Part 2 - Student Leaders and Advisors: 6:00 - 8:00pm

6:00pm: Knowledge Session: Essential Definitions, Policies, and Laws

6:30pm: Attitude Session: Where Do You Stand?

7:00pm: Behavior Session: It’s not what you say; it’s what you DO that counts.

7:30pm: Bystander Session: How BOLD are you?

7:55pm Closing and Post-Test

What is Respect My Red?
RMR is an engaging, interactive curriculum on respectful relationships. RMR teaches the components of healthy relationships and in turn reduces the incidence of sexual harassment and assault. The curricula tackle four critical aspects of culture change: knowledge, attitude, behavior, and pro-social bystander skills. The institute features interactive theatre, social media, and case studies.

What will I experience at RMR? Attend the RMR Training Institute to work with fellow attendees in “quick-shops,” participate in an interactive case study, and learn new skills from inspiring and highly skilled trainers. RMR is accommodating of all faith and cultural backgrounds. Learn how to effect culture change with primary prevention and bystander intervention.

What will I leave with?

RMR Level 1 Certification. The curriculum was developed with over fifty leading researchers and experts in the fields of sexual assault prevention, sexual health, psychology, sociology, mental health and healthy relationships. Based on students successful completion of pre and post test.

A Plan, the Tools and the Skills. Private or public. Large or small. Religious or nondenominational. Athletes, scholars and artists. Urban or rural. Respect My Red has options for each. Be ready to implement as soon as you get back to your campus.

Consortium Membership. An invitation to participate in the International Consortium of Students Against Sexual Violence (ICSASV), a private peer-to-peer platform for engaging students around healthy relationship best practices.

Essential Skills and Training.

  • Understand current laws and policies on consent and incapacitation related to sexual assault.
  • Learn characteristics of healthy and unhealthy relationships.
  • Train on a comprehensive up-stander program with ready-to-use curricula.
  • Understand definitions and manifestations of technology-related sexual assault, harassment, consent, incapacitation, alcohol-related issues, sexual exploitation, relationship abuse, stalking, dating violence and more.
  • Practice your skills and knowledge in “quickshops” with peers during the event.
  • Learn how to reach and engage peers from various backgrounds, including gender, race, religious affiliation, socio-economic background, and sexual orientation.

RMR Resource Kit The RMR Institute Resource Kit will be made available to all attendees online as a password protected link. The link will be sent electronically to the email address you provided during your Eventbrite registration for the Institute. At this link you will find materials for further study, training webinars and curriculum guides. The link will be active for 30 days.


Are there ID or minimum age requirements to checkin at the event? You will need to bring a valid student or school ID to checkin. Student attendees must be Juniors or at least 14 years old and have parent/guardian permission to attend. Additionally, schools sending minors must have at least 1 adult for every 4 minors.

What are my transportation/parking options for getting to and from the event? Free parking is available at the event.

Do I have to bring my printed ticket to the event? Please bring a printed copy of your ticket to check-in.

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