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Governing a school is a challenging role. The Governing body relies on the shared skills, experience and knowledge of its members and it is essential that everyone knows how to communicate effectively. School Governors are the largest volunteer group in the country, bringing together members of the community from all walks of life.
Some conflict is inevitable – people have different views about what to do or how to do it, are subject to different pressures and experience different types of emotions such as anger, fear and rejection.
Some people’s personalities or working style can make them challenging to work with, particularly when they are hostile or aggressive, unresponsive or silent, negative or complaining.
Good communication skills, including assertiveness and empathy, an understanding of the difference between communication designed to control and communication designed to foster collaboration, together with an understanding as to how to manage conflict constructively, is the basis for maintaining mutual, respectful and productive relationships.
The 3 Modules of:
1. ‘Turning Down the Heat’
2. ‘Encouraging Effective Communication’
3. ‘Moving from Tell to Talk’
Can be attended as stand alone workshops will provide you with the opportunity to build on your existing skills and strengths as a Governor towards improving communication and managing conflict.
“WHEN WE CHANGE OUR HABITS WE CHANGE OUR LIVES”
This module 'Moving from Tell to Talk' presented by the specialist team from Medway Mediation will help you to:
- Limit the impact and damage on working relationships
- Understand the importance and use of emotional intelligence
- Recognise how communication styles can affect relationships
- Consider whether generational difference matter?
- Be able to hear the other person and express what you’d like to say
- Reshape negative judgments of yourself and others
While clearly contextulised to reflect governance issues, we would also expect this course to be useful in governors' social and professional lives
If you have access to Medway GovernorHub please make your booking via the governor training page
If you do not have access to the above service please contact us at email@example.com for more details and to make a booking