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Relationship Alchemy Fearless Relating & Transformational Deep Dive w/Reid

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Are you ready to take a 7 day journey intensive into the world of FEARLESS RELATING with 2 of the most dynamic relationship geeks on earth?

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This week long intensive is set in a luxurious setting, beaches, stunning sunrises and sunsets, delicious food, a heated salt water pool and hot tub.

Are you ready to take a 7 day deep dive intensive into the world of FEARLESS RELATING with two of the most dynamic relationship geeks on the planet today?

Enigmatic comedian, sxx and relationship expert Reid Mihalko will show you ways to simplify your life, boost your sxxual self confidence lessen emotional paperwork, and face your fears with humor and resiliency.

Monique Darling, an emissary of self love and radical self acceptance, will open you to an immense playground of possibilities you had not dared to consider. And will bring together the juiciest morsels of various modalities from Tantra, Shamanism, and Magic to help you internalize and integrate YOUR unique life lessons, and help you find the greatest love of your life. Yourself.

Come and benefit from the blending of their unique experiences, approaches, and insights regarding skillful communication. How amazing would it be to live life offering every "no" without apology and every "yes" without being ashamed?

Learn that it really isn't about anyone else, it's about tuning in and taking care of you, releasing your armor and becoming more vulnerable to discover an inner strength you did not know you have, gaining the ability to laugh in the face of your greatest fears, and then you can relate with ease and joy with others, wherever they are at. PLUS Learn better sxxual techniques which will boost your sxxual self-confidence, raise your self-esteem, and make you more confident and competent in sxx and love! Being THAT kind of person is attractive in AND out of the bedroom!

This workshop is designed for men, women, humans, creatures, the shy and the extroverted, straight/gay/bi/poly/ kinky/vanilla/woo-woo/skeptics, couples and singles, beginners and advanced Sxx Geeks…


If you could have anything, do anything, what would you choose? What do you really want? What is keeping you from having it? Is someone else better qualified? better looking? more financially stable? Do you have “problems”? What if every limit you have, every chain that binds you, is only there because you believe it is? What if the limits disappear, the chains dissolve?. Your life is alive with an abundance of possibilities, opportunities, and potential all you have to do is be willing to say "yes".

So much of the fear and hesitation in life comes not from the self, but from fretting about what others may think,or what they will say or whom they might share it with afterwards rather than being able to enjoy the moment. Another set of fears come from passed-down beliefs that we accept without questioning them.

What if you could make decisions and follow your heart...follow your body and your desires without worrying about what others thought? What if you were fearless in relating – first, to yourself and then, to others?

We all have feelings of ferocity and tenderness, but we must feel safe in order to be vulnerable and intimate with another. Part of that safety is being confident in our own ability to say ‘NO’ and take a stand for our boundaries. Only then can we play in the realm of our true ‘HELL YES!’

Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century?

Dating, marriage and the reasons we stay in relationships have changed a lot since the days of our great grandparents.

Come join us for a unique 7 day exploration around such topics as:

*How do we establish boundaries and create safe space for ourselves to explore with others?

*Shifting paradigms from blame, shame, guilt & judgement, to love, acceptance, understanding and presence.

*Factors that promote or inhibit intimacy:

*The power of no and boundary (understand why your “no” says more about you than your “yes”)

In this workshop you will learn, play, and practice:

To ask for what you want, skillfully, without attachment to the response.

To be honest and vulnerable about your wants and desires without shame, without deflection, without armor.

To hold space for someone who has not yet learned these skills.

To own your fears, instead of them owning you.

To not be afraid to be the one who loves the most

To learn to be even more vulnerable when you want to isolate or close down.

Release shame and haunting memories

Modalities of communication: verbal and non verbal

How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead

Reid will boil down more than 150,000 conversations he’s had about sxx and relationships and walks YOU through his best thinking and advice on making sxx, dating, relationships and mating work!

Why and how relationships have changed in the last 3 generations

Why duration is no longer the best way to measure the success of a relationship

How to figure out what species YOU are!

Tools to determine if someone is good or horrible fit for you…

Communication Skills to ask for what you want and how to avoid past relationship mistakes…

A few “black belt” relationship tips and tricks!

From PG-13, non nudity interactive, hilariously "edutaining" demonstrations, to rated R, nude, explicit demos, and the option to work on another person's body, you will learn:

• How to use fantasy to turbo-charge a lover's orgasm...

• How to listen to your partner's body in bed...

• How to create your own "sxxual positions decoder ring" so you naturally "think" about lovemaking in an exciting, Kama Sutra way!

•How to slow down sxxual experience for greater pleasure

learning to STOP judging ourselves and our partners

•Understanding how to expand our own sxxual energy and our PLEASURE Body

•Opening to Full Body Energy Orgasms

•The different stories you and others are telling about your sxxual identity

•Developing Emotional and Sxxual Safety for Intimacy

• 5 tips that will give you oral sxx super powers!

• 3 Powerful Perspectives that will help you understand pleasure and orgasm, and how to give and receive both!

• 3 ways to use your hands sxxually that will drive your partner wild AND leave you feeling more confident as a lover!

• 2 BIG differences between lingams (penises) and yonis (vulvas), and 1 thing that's the same that will make you 10-times better in bed...

• Tantric Massage techniques

• The 5 elements of touch

• And still more!

Speed-Flirting is a rambunctious, social event for humans of all ages. The usual definition of flirting as just “a sxxual thang” limits our ability to engage with people playfully. What if flirting meant “increasing the fun and play in any interaction?” Perfect for singles, couples, and entire communities, Speed-Flirting gives us the tools to go deeper than just a wink and a smile…

Speed-Flirting will teach you to:

Break the ice with ease and confidence.

Make your dating and relationship life pressure-free.

Keep people from misunderstanding your intentions.

Relate with rejection gracefully and leave people feeling better for having met you.

Get anyone to make the first move.

This will be a fun, humorous, pressure free zone, to get to open up and feel what it's like to discern who you may want to date, sleep with, or have any type of relationship with.

You will gain tools and leave with the ability to relate with everyone in your life with more ease, grace, and blissful contentment from your own center.

If you ever begin to understand who you are, you could not possibly ever compare yourself to another, to envy, wish to impress, to BE different than you are. For in the beauty, wonder, and awe at discovering how magnificent “your” puzzle pieces fit together, at the ever changing infinite ways YOU shift, each one so unique, so extraordinary, it would take an entire lifetime to only just begin to discover. Yet so often we abandon the quest of self discovery, to follow another, or to invest in relationships, doing what we have been told is the “right” way to be. The greatest freedom that we could ever express or imagine, is by simply giving ourselves permission to gently keep returning "home" to our center and transform the world simply by being 100% ourselves.

Come with an open heart and a willingness, a longing, to bring your stories into the light, so that they can stop you running away from your shadow.

There will be times, over the weekend, when the atmosphere will be sensual and energetically sxxual. (Live, explicit, nude demos, and optional hands on work with a partner) All activities and exercises will be guided and are always optional. You can participate in the workshop solo, with a partner and in small groups. All participants are asked to practice with each other, or by oneself, in whatever manner supports you best. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience.

set your sights on registering for this breakthrough intensive. Happening in one of the most beautiful places on this planet!

Say ‘HELL YES’ to discovering ‘YOU

As well as the training, you will also have time to lie in the sun and swim in the sea...returning your body to its natural self, the state of bliss!

There will be plenty of opportunities to relish and enjoy the beautiful natural elements that southern Baja Mexico has to offer, like warm clear watered snorkeling, secluded beach walks and stunning sea side dinners.

When: March 3-10, 2022

Where: Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

The Main House ~ Luxury, private courtyard with heated saltwater pool and hot tub.

Lovely 2 bedroom Condos walking distance to house to share with other participants. All in a gated community right on the shore of Cabo San Lucas. Full kitchens, two bathrooms, washer/dryer, plus snorkels and beach stuff in every condo.

First come first served for room and bed choice. Some singles and a few shared queens.

Cost: $2495.00 early bird $2000 if paid in full by Dec 3

Limit 16 participants


Check out our other EveryDay Tantra events in Cabo this year!

The 7th Annual Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators :

Priestess Initiation Embodying your Power through Ritual, Water Dance and Yoni Awakening :

Awaken as Love Stage 1 Training in Cabo w/ James, Monique, & Peter


Reid Mihalko, sxx and relationship geek, helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sxx lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive, pleasure-focused sxxual health information.

Reid frequently speaks at colleges and universities on healthy relationship skills, and regularly appears in the media sharing his views on shame-free sxxuality. In 2018, Reid began a restorative justice-based accountability process, stepping down from teaching, to address sxxual misconduct and harms from 2010 that had been courageously shared as a result of #MeToo. The formal, year-long process was shared publicly and can be found at

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Learn more at

Monique Darling, author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 3000 workshops in the past 13 years. She is the founder of Everyday Tantra an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to

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