Queers & Allies Ecstatic Dance — Monthly Gathering ✨
Overview
You’re invited to a clean, inclusive, pressure-free dance space where you get to move your body, feel your feelings, and be fully yourself — without alcohol, without performance, and without judgment. 💛
This is a queer-forward space that warmly welcomes allies and the wider community, created especially for anyone who doesn’t always feel safe or seen in typical nightlife or hetero-leaning dance spaces. Whether you’re brand new to ecstatic dance or a longtime mover — you belong here. 🌟
We are intentionally building a new sober, inclusive queer + ally dance community in Santa Barbara — rooted in consistency, care, joy, and real human connection.
🎶 YOUR DJ & MUSICAL JOURNEY
Your night is guided by DJ Megi — known for playful, eclectic, heart-opening musical journeys that move through grounding, release, joy, sweat, softness, and collective energy. 💃🌀
No choreography.
No right way to dance.
Just your body, your rhythm, your breath.
🌀 THE FLOW OF THE NIGHT
🕖 7:00 PM — Opening Circle & Movement Meditation
• Right/left brain balancing
• Spinal health & nervous-system settling
• Drop into your body & into community
(On-time arrival encouraged, late arrival always welcome)
💃 7:15–8:30 PM — Ecstatic Dance Journey
A guided, expressive, DJ-led movement experience
🤍 8:15 PM — Closing Circle
Ground, integrate, and land together
🌟 THIS SPACE IS FOR:
🌈 LGBTQIA+ folks
🤍 Allies
🌀 Nervous first-timers & seasoned dancers
💛 Sober & substance-free humans
💃 All ages • all bodies • all genders
🫶 Anyone who wants to feel safe while they move
✅ WHAT YOU’LL FIND
✅ A consent-centered dance floor
✅ A sober, substance-free environment
✅ Movement as medicine
✅ Real community
✅ A dance floor that feels like home
🚫 WHAT YOU WON’T FIND
❌ Alcohol
❌ Club or bar pressure
❌ Hookup vibes
❌ Being watched, judged, or performed for
🌙 A NOTE ABOUT THE SERIES
This gathering is part of a weekly dance community, with this night offered once a month as a queer-forward ecstatic dance for queers, allies, and the wider community.
Our hope is that this becomes part of your weekly rhythm — a place where friendships form, regulars return, and a new sober, inclusive queer + ally space continues to grow in Santa Barbara. Whether you come once a month or every week, you are part of what’s being built here. 🌈💛
💧 WHAT TO BRING
• Water bottle
• Yoga mat (optional — for stretching or grounding)
• Comfortable clothes you can move & sweat in
• Layers for warming up or cooling down
• Anything that helps you feel supported (journal, shawl, small pillow)
• An open heart
• Whatever version of you is showing up that day 💛
📝 WHAT TO KNOW
• This is a sober, substance-free space
• This is a consent-centered dance floor — everyone honors boundaries
• No talking on the dance floor during the journey (connection happens before & after)
• You’re welcome to dance big, dance small, rest, stretch, or sit anytime
• Shoes off
• Phones off or tucked away to support presence & safety
• You never have to dance with anyone — your autonomy is always respected
• Late arrival is welcome, though on-time arrival is encouraged for the opening circle
✨ Come as you are. Move how you want. You belong here. ✨
Lineup
Good to know
Highlights
- 1 hour 30 minutes
- In person
Refund Policy
Location
The Dance Hub
22 East Victoria Street
Side entrance Santa Barbara, CA 93101
How do you want to get there?
OPENING
? THE FLOW — OPENING (First 15 Minutes) **? Opening Circle + Cross-Body Movement Meditation** We’ll begin by **grounding into the space and into community** with a gentle opening circle led by **DJ Megi**. Through a **right brain / left brain balancing, cross-body movement practice**, we’ll awaken the spine, get the body moving, and allow the **chi to start flowing**. This is a soft, accessible way to: * settle the nervous system * arrive fully in your body * and gently open into the dance No experience needed — just come as you are and let your body lead. ?
DANCE WAVE
1-Hour Ecstatic Journey A Five Rhythms–inspired wave*guided by **DJ Megi**—moving the body through activation, release, expression, and regulation: **? Flow** — Slow, grounded beginnings to arrive in the body. **⚡ Staccato** — House-driven pulse to build momentum and power. **? Chaos** — The apex: wild, cathartic, expressive release. **? Lyrical** — Spacious, emotional, and heart-open expression. **? Stillness** — Gentle landing for integration and rest. Move however your body wants. No steps to follow—just rhythm, breath, and presence. A complete arc for **creative flow and nervous-system balance**.
? THE CLOSING CIRCLE
? THE CLOSING CIRCLE — COMMUNITY & INTEGRATION We’ll gather together at the end of the dance to **sit in the container we’ve created**, settle the nervous system, and gently land the journey. This is a time to: * share names * feel the collective energy * and connect as real humans in the room You’re welcome to speak or simply listen. This circle is about **witnessing, belonging, and growing into community together**—a soft, grounded return after the wave of movement. This is where strangers begin to feel like community. ?
Frequently asked questions
Organized by
Megi
Followers
--
Events
--
Hosting
--