$35 – $40

Official Cuddle Party with Soleiman and Monique

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La Mesa


La Mesa, CA 91941

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Cuddle Party is a 3-hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space.

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Effective immediately, all event attendees will be required to provide a pre-entry negative COVID-19 test (24 hours). Given the recent increase of cases, the requirement we’re adopting has become necessary to help keep our community safe. While we don’t want to add to the stress, we do want to make sure we are doing what we can to keep our spaces as safe as possible.

Your negative COVID-19 test must be:

* clear & legible

* dated within 24 hours prior to the event start date

We will also have a limited quantity of at the door rapid tests sold at cost $20

We respectfully ask you to stay home if you:

* are sick or showing symptoms of illness

* have been near someone who thinks they may have or have been exposed to COVID-19

(If you cannot come because you’re sick, we can offer you a refund or a credit to a future event.)

Please understand, you are attending these events at your own risk and are solely responsible for your own health. You are expected to take necessary steps to protect yourself and others.

We reserve the right to deny entry or to ask anyone to leave if they are showing any signs of illness before or during the event. If this happens, no refunds will be provided. These requirements will remain mandatory for ALL events through October 2021. As it’s a complicated situation that is rapidly changing, we are closely monitoring what’s going on and will re-evaluate event requirements in a couple months.

We are incredibly grateful for your understanding and continued support & connection. Stay safe and take care of each other!


What exactly is a Cuddle Party?

Cuddle Party is a 3-hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space, experience personal exploration and intimacy, and have fun with like-minded friends from the community.

Nurturing and consensual loving touch is good for maintaining healthy blood pressure, a strong nervous system, and a balanced emotional health. One’s ability to connect with and develop greater trust in others is emphasized during the group exchanges during Cuddle Parties. Self-care is a cornerstone of Cuddle Party experience.

As seen on CBS’s the DR’S - http://www.thedoctorstv.com/videos/cuddle-parties

Cuddle Party is a formal, non-sexual event that offers participants an opportunity to explore intimacy with like-minded others. In a relaxed environment that upholds personal boundaries and maintains a professional atmosphere at all times, one is encouraged to engage in communication and touch in a non-threatening, share-affirming setting.

Cuddle Party is a holistic, social environment, that attracts fascinating people from all walks of life. It provides a special and unique opportunity for connection, learning, and growth. Come cuddle with us!

About Cuddle Party

Cuddle Party experiences teach participants that they alone create their own safety container. How did it change my life? When I was growing up and received a NO, it felt like I was being rejected. The result was my emphasis on being nice, being lovable, and being unconditionally available. The profound learning came when I realized my unyielding YES’s became a subconscious inability to trust another person’s YES without their own personally vocalized NO!

I am very appreciative and honored by the courage shown by those who have clear boundaries and an ability to voice their YES and NO decisions without guilt, shame, or fear. It gives me the confidence to ask for what my own heart desires instead of censoring myself, knowing the receiver of my request has the voice and courage to embrace or withdraw based on their own perimeters. “Thank you for taking care of yourself.”


BRING: Comfortable PJs, Blankets, Pillows and any kind of soft fluff to enhance your experience.

Please be aware there are 2 cats on the premises. If you are allergic, please take care of your needs before attending.

Please bring a snack to share. (Examples - Grapes, carrots, watermelon, or chocolate)

PLEASE BE ON TIME: Make certain to account FOR TRAFFIC AND PARKING. Doors will be closed at 7:45 pm and late arrivals will not be admitted.

The opening Welcome Circle is for introductions and to go over the rules of Cuddle Party. This is an important aspect of the Cuddle Party experience and creates a safe container for all participants. It is essential that everyone be on time.

Love exchange $40 General Admission

$35 early Bird tickets


LIMIT 30 tickets sold

RSVP HERE at Eventbrite: .

This cuddle party will be held indoors in a large space there will be no mandatory vaccines, covid tests, mask wearing, or social distancing, but you can choose to have any of those things.

We invite you to come if you don’t require those things to be mandatory in your self care.

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About your facilitators:

Soleiman Bolour

I am passionate about creating and holding space for people to feel safe and deeply nurtured. For most of my life, I’ve sought out different ways to explore and study human connection. I am trained in Reiki, Tantra, Vedic Meditation, and Psychology, earning my Masters in Spiritual Psychology, at the University of Santa Monica. I’ve spent the last 12 years studying tantra and am currently in Dawn Cartwright’s teacher training program. Cuddling is alchemy for the spirit and can provide endless emotional and physical benefits, as well as deep relaxation and comfort on a spiritual level.

Cuddling has offered me a way to co-create an environment for others to experience connected, non-sexual intimacy through physical touch and affection.

Who I am as a Cuddle Party Facilitator / What you'll find at my Cuddle Parties

I’ve been told my whole life that I have a gentle presence and the natural ability to make people feel comfortable, relaxed, and safe. I think it’s because I encourage people to show up and express themselves just as they are.

Monique Darling, Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, has led over 3000 workshops in the past 13 years. She is the founder of EverydayTantra, an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing, and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts, and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love, and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment, and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to www.everydaytantra.com

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