Ice Cream Social/Hot Seat: A Radical Approach to Consent
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Ice Cream Social/Hot Seat: A Radical Approach to Consent

Ice Cream Social/Hot Seat: A Radical Approach to Consent

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4210 Holden St

4210 Holden Street

Emeryville, CA 94608

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So what is Ice cream hot seat? Basically its a radical new approach to consent and asking for what you want.

Are you someone that has a hard time making requests for what you desire? Do find it difficult being the center of attention? If so, this event might be good for you on pushing these edges and boundaries, to help you find more delight in navagating these desirable requests.

Are you willing to put yourself out there? To sit in the middle of a room filled with peers, friends, and lovers. To be blindfolded, and then daring to ask for exactly what you want? Be it non sexual, sensual, or as sexual as you have ever imagined? Are you willing to ask for it, but more importantly, are you willing to receive it if someone says 'yes"?

This version of "Hot Seat" we will be playing, will have the person in the middle be blindfolded and they will get to ask for anything they want, and then people that are watching can opt in to do that request. If no one opts in we ask the person in the middle to make a new request. We will have several different rounds beginning with rated PG requests, that are non-sexual, then we will move on to more rated R or sensual rounds of requests and finally ending witha XXX request rounds, where the sky is the limit for people asking for what type of touch/connection they want.

Everyone will be at choice the entire event, if sexual activity does occur, a safer sex conversation will be used/modeled. Voyuerism IS Participation, you don't have to get in the middle or ever say yes to a single request, but it can be healing and expanding to just get to see such behavoir modeled.

Is it radical? Sure, but you will each be held at whatever level you enter the space with.

We begin with the Ice Cream social part of the evening is where each participant gets to brings a pint of their favorite frozen treat. We set the premise as everyone gets to have their ice cream and eat it too. The goal is finding a group of ice creams lovers that can negotiate and consent on how everyone can eat their ice cream together. They will get a cone and an ice cream scoop and that's it. From there we all will be sharing, pairing off, multiple.scoops on the cone, and asking questions like, can you lick mine? Do I lick one whole side or only my layer? Who eats the cone? Each team scoops their ice cream into many layers of a cone and then negotiates and continues to find consent so everyone gets to enjoy their treat in community with consent. It might be super easy for some and more challenging for others. It is a playful way to open up consent, negotiating for what you want, and enjoying yummy ice cream!

Are you in to collaboration and delving into the sensual delights of what ice cream and touch have to offer? If so make time to join us for an evening full of laughter, movement, and fun!

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About Your Facilitators:
Monique Darling, workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 1,000 workshops in the past 5 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties. Learn more about Monique by going to juicyenlightenment.com or track her whereabouts at whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com


Peter Petersen has been teaching for 14 years and has been a certified Sheng Zhen Qigong teacher for the last 12 years, where he has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.
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