How to Dominate Men: Cuckolding

Are you 50 Shades of Grey curious? Then do not come to this class. If, however, you are a Woman who is curious about how You can harness Your "Pussy Power" to have more control in Your career, over men and in your life through the erotic art of Female Domination, then this class is for you.

Whether you are looking to spice up your sex life, be more in-control professionally, or even thinking about becoming a Dominatrix, you will get the psychology and tools you need to get started.

This is an interactive class to explore the joys and sweet sorrows of Erotic Cuckolding. What is cuckolding and how can you bring it into a loving relationship. This class is appropriate for anyone who is curious about cuckoldry or who already practice it as a lifestyle. This class will deal with male and female cuckolds and the partners that love to humiliate them. We will focus on cuckolding as part of a D/s relationship as well as a fetish.

In this class you will learn:

1. What is cuckolding? And why do it?

2. History of cuckolding from Victorian to Modern Days

3. Cuckold all around the world-Metaphors and terms from different cultures

4. The Keyholder-cuckolds and male chastity

5. Cuckold Terms and Practices

6. Cuckold fantasy versus cuckold practice

7. Erotic Humiliation: Masculinity and cuckoldry

8. Erotic Humiliation: Feminity and cuckqueans

9. Cuckold play time...begin to test out your cuckold fantasies by watching your partner lapdance someone else while humiliating you verbally

10. Watching or Waiting: Observing the sex act or waiting at home for your partner

11. Touching versus not touching by the cuckold

12. Cleanup and forced bi

13 The female cuckold: cuckqueans

14. Pitfalls, Safety (emotional and physical), establishing limits, navigating the landmines of the heart

15. Resources for cuckold couples

Instructor: Soma Snakeoil

ABOUT SOMA

Goddess Soma AKA Soma Snakeoil has been a world renowned pro & lifestyle Dominatrix, fetish model, smut producer, writer and performance artist for 15 years. She's created hundreds of videos, been shot by some of the world’s top photographers and been featured in kink magazines like Hustler's Taboo, websites like Kink.com and was filmed by Zulman King of the Red Shoe Diaries for HBO. Her film Rubber Bordello, which she wrote, directed, and produced, won three AVNs and a Feminist Porn Award.

During her career, she has owned dungeons, trained Dommes, and was a big part of the international BDSM community where she’s taught classes on erotic discipline, cuckolding, and “How to be a Goddess”.

You can read about some of Goddess Soma’s notorious exploits in New York Times Best Seller “The Hepatitis Bathtub”. Goddess Soma has gotten sober since the mischief documented in “Hepatitis Bathtub” and taken up a daily meditation practice, and is studying Buddhism at Against the Stream. She trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) with a mindfulness focus at La Maida Institute in Los Angeles and does continued personal reading on psychology, and body/mind traditions.

She is currently a working artist, Dominatrix and social activist that focuses on issues for the unhoused, sex workers and drug users. She is in the process of adding a harm reduction / Narcan program to The Sidewalk Project, the street based arts organization she cofounded.