$55 – $345

FemDom : A Weekend Intensive Retreat

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FemDom Retreat

East 52nd Street

New York, NY 11203

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New to Female Domination and not sure where to start? Consider this your crash course. An all day intensive we will be able to delve deeper into specific areas within domination and perfect your craft with individualized coaching. Wether you're looking to involve domination in your sex life, your career, or just in everyday conversation - Tools of the Domme are invaluable.

There is no single "right" way within FemDom. Every Domme has their own style, and every sub requires a different approach. DommeLabs are designed to give you the tools you need to be a badass bitch in and out of the bedroom. Refine your skills, gain new inspiration, methods, and embrace your inner Domme. Learn how to seduce your partner into playing submissively. Bounce your sick and twisted ideas off of a group of Domme-minded peers in DommeThink, where the best meddling can be made.

This class is open to individuals of all genders and orientations interested in FemDom from a dominant or submissive perspective. All individuals who identify as female or are a trans/non-binary human with a vulva are elligible to be a Domme-in-Training.

To start, we will go back to the basics. Use building blocks like Honorifics and exercises to develop your Domme persona or their sub persona. Learn how to determine pain thresholds, reading your sub and more....

We will discuss the breakdown of a scene and how to execute it, as well as different avenues to take your newfound Domme persona. Bringing your partner to sub space requires an immense amount of trust. Learn the lingo and gain all the tools to prepare you for the fun and exciting world of FemDom. You're going to like it here.

In addition to different areas of concentration within FemDom each Domme-in-Training will get a private kink coaching session with Lola. ($250 value!)

In this class we will answer questions like....

What is your Domme style? How does that alter, dependent on the sub?

When and how do I bring this up with my partner?

How do you navigate boundaries, hard and soft limits?

Where does Domination begin and end?

What are common "mistakes" new Dommes make?

What are the main differences between professional and personal domination?

***meals and snacks will be provided***


Traveling from out of the NYC area? Select the accomodation add on for a cost effective lternative PLUS a bonding experience with any other fellow dommes who opt to spend the night :

Schedule ** to be finalized

Night 1

  • (optional) meet and greet. introductions. welcome drinks

Day 1

  • FemDom 101: An intro and overview of the breadth of FemDom before we get into the depth....

  • Sensation Play : Where to begin with Kink & Find Your THING and learn some new tools along the way.

  • Bondage 101: Learn practical ties and the art and safety behind keeping your submissive tightly intertwined

  • Impact Play: Everything from light play to your pain slut

  • Humiliation & FinDom : The utlimate form of worship

  • CBT: Cock and Ball Torture PLUS Ball Bondage for the weenies among us

  • Domming from a distance: what to do with subs from afar

  • Brats: When individuals test you, what it means and how to approach it

  • Wrestling for Lovers : Bring Playfighting to the Bedroom

  • Individualized kink coaching available for signup


For Submissives of any gender orientation who wish to attend the class can expect two or more Dommes assigned to them throughout the day for various assignments. There is copious opporunity to craft your submissive persona and discover new things ab out yourself and your interests. Like the idea of serving a few mistresses in training? As the Domme's learn different ways to rule you will be exposed to the variety of routes of submission and see what appeals most to you. While you do this, the Dommes will learn how to determine pain thresholds, aftercare and more....

Submissives for this class will be assigned to a small group of dommes, during select breakout exercises throughout the class the dommes will practice and perform various non-invasive techniques with the subs consent. EXAMPLE: a verbal questioning technique to gain information or confuse the submissive.

Note: Submissives will be required to arrive at 10:00a for a mandatory orientation.

About the instructor:

Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Fetish Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and self proclaimed Olympian Squirter. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes and frequently makes appearances performing at House of Yes and The Box. Lola's background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.

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