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Epic Concert with Dave + All Gender Temple Party with Monique & Peter

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This is a delicious night of creativity, sensual connection through Qigong, a dance number, and a temple party!

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Effective immediately, all event attendees will be required to provide a pre-entry negative COVID-19 test (24 hours). Given the recent increase of cases, the requirement we’re adopting has become necessary to help keep our community safe. While we don’t want to add to the stress, we do want to make sure we are doing what we can to keep our spaces as safe as possible.

Your negative COVID-19 test must be:

* clear & legible

* dated within 24 hours prior to the event start date

We will also have a limited quantity of at the door rapid tests sold at cost $20

We respectfully ask you to stay home if you:

* are sick or showing symptoms of illness

* have been near someone who thinks they may have or have been exposed to COVID-19

(If you cannot come because you’re sick, we can offer you a refund or a credit to a future event.)

Please understand, you are attending these events at your own risk and are solely responsible for your own health. You are expected to take necessary steps to protect yourself and others.

We reserve the right to deny entry or to ask anyone to leave if they are showing any signs of illness before or during the event. If this happens, no refunds will be provided. These requirements will remain mandatory for ALL events through October 2021. As it’s a complicated situation that is rapidly changing, we are closely monitoring what’s going on and will re-evaluate event requirements in a couple months.

We are incredibly grateful for your understanding and continued support & connection. Stay safe and take care of each other!


Dave Booda is one of our beloved Community leaders who also happens to be a kick ass musician and who decided to create new music for the first time in 11 years!! He has been a great friend and huge inspiration to me.

Come join us for a San Diego House Concert followed by an All Gender Temple Party (Dave may even share a few of his rockstar massage and play techniques). If you have never experienced his live performances you are in for a treat!!

This house can only fit 30 people, so we will for sure sell out! RSVP Early....

This is a delicious night of creativity, sensual connection through Qigong, a dance number, and a temple party! We welcome all genders and compassionate curious explorations of your own gender expression.

This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the play party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, sensual, and sxxuality, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed space. This party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensuality to the next level. The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare. Come dressed in something that makes you feel sacred and feeling good about yourself!

Next let Dave, Peter, and Monique lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!

What does “temple party” mean?

In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality/sexxuality are a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation with a capital “P” can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It’s a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!

This is the party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.


You are sensually and emotionally savvy enough to play nicely with others. You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly… and/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I don’t want to play,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.

My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event. Come relax. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch.

All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!

we especially welcome trans, intersex, queer and other folks living anywhere within the spectrum – we recognize how hetero-normative spaces can be and aim to challenge this through our conversations and actions…


Doors open at 7:30 PM and CLOSE AT 8:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, craft meaningful conversations, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be a closing circle at midnight. PLEASE text Monique at 619 601 8852 if you’re unavoidably running late, but please just be on time!


Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. No drugs or alcohol please. We like our attendees to be present and capable of connection. Bring whatever clothing you’d like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your regular weekend clothes for relaxation. Bring along whatever toys or accessories you feel comfortable sharing with select individuals and whatever protection makes you feel safe, whatever you might be needing to create that perfect evening. Oh, and of course, please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.

Love Exchange is $99 for male identified, $69 for female identified or nonbinary or $150 for pairs

We have a few sliding scale and scholarship tickets for some savvy female identified folk, just contact Monique or Peter.


Limit 30 tickets sold...So get them now before they are gone!

Join early as we have limited the capacity and this will sell out!! 🙂

About Your Facilitators:

Dave Booda is a writer, teacher, and musician. He is the co-founder of IntimacyFest, and writes weekly at about relationships, creativity, and happiness. He is also the host of Darken the Page, where he talks to writers about the creative process. Dave moonlights as his alter-ego Boodananda, a spiritually satirical Kirtan singer who travels the world performing high-vibrational music for enlightened audiences.

Monique Darling, Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.

YOU, you are the gift!

Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops in the past 13 years. She has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to

Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 18 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 16 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

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