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Encore All Gender Temple Party w/ Monique Lawrence & Peter

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La Mesa, CA 91941

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All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!

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Effective immediately, all event attendees will be required to provide a pre-entry negative COVID-19 test (24 hours). Given the recent increase of cases, the requirement we’re adopting has become necessary to help keep our community safe. While we don’t want to add to the stress, we do want to make sure we are doing what we can to keep our spaces as safe as possible.

Your negative COVID-19 test must be:

* clear & legible

* dated within 24 hours prior to the event start date

We will also have a limited quantity of at the door rapid tests sold at cost $20

We respectfully ask you to stay home if you:

* are sick or showing symptoms of illness

* have been near someone who thinks they may have or have been exposed to COVID-19

(If you cannot come because you’re sick, we can offer you a refund or a credit to a future event.)

Please understand, you are attending these events at your own risk and are solely responsible for your own health. You are expected to take necessary steps to protect yourself and others.

We reserve the right to deny entry or to ask anyone to leave if they are showing any signs of illness before or during the event. If this happens, no refunds will be provided. These requirements will remain mandatory for ALL events through October 2021. As it’s a complicated situation that is rapidly changing, we are closely monitoring what’s going on and will re-evaluate event requirements in a couple months.

We are incredibly grateful for your understanding and continued support & connection. Stay safe and take care of each other!


We are fortunate that Soleiman and the Oasis crew are opening their doors for a very special night.

Many of you have experienced my play parties in the past, and they are some of the safest, most fun environments to explore consent and sacred sxxuality. Tonight we are widening the playground......

There will be three distinct areas/levels for you to revel in your embodied curiosity!!

PLUS a Pool and Hot Tub!!

We will have a "cuddle" space, it will be an our 'white' play space, completely nonsexual, a space to practice touch, boundaries, and consent without sxx being on the table.

We will have a pink area with many different sensation toys, a massage table and a whole room dedicated to pg-13 activities, if you love anticipation, love to make out, love to revel in your sensuality, this room is for you (no penetration here)

Then we have our red room, that will be open to all sorts of consensual sxxual activities, all genders, sounds, body shapes, colors, orientations, and sizes welcome 🙂

Plus because we are at Soleiman's house, so there will be a 'Fungeon' where you can explore some kink adventures......

This is an experiential party for the sensually/sxxually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past.

This is the temple party you want to come to even if you've never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed space. This party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensuality/sxxuality to the next level. The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare.

Come dressed in something that makes you feel sacred and feeling good about yourself!

Let Monique, Lawrence, and Peter lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!

What does temple party mean?

In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality/sxxuality is a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul.

Participation with a capital "P" can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It's a deliciously naughty space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!

This is the play party you want to come to if you've never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.



You are sensually and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You're a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly...... and/or you're someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you're reading this, thinking, "I would love to come, but I don't want to play," PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.

My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event. Come relax. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. Bring some popcorn.

All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!

we especially welcome trans, intersex, queer and other folks living anywhere within the spectrum - we recognise how heteronormative spaces can be and aim to challenge this through our conversations and actions..


Doors open at 7:30 PM and CLOSE AT 8:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, craft meaningful conversations, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be a closing circle at midnight. PLEASE text Monique at 6196018852 if you're unavoidably running late, but please just be on time!

WHAT TO BRING: Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. No drugs or alcohol please. We like our attendees to be present and capable of connection. Bring whatever clothing you'd like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your regular weekend clothes for relaxation. Bring along whatever toys or accessories you feel comfortable sharing with select individuals and whatever protection makes you feel safe, whatever you might be needing to create that perfect evening. Oh, and of course, please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.


Love Exchange is $99 or $150 for pairs

We have a few sliding scale and scholarship tickets for some savvy female identified folk, just contact Monique or Peter.


About your Facilitators:

Monique Darling, Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.

YOU, you are the gift!

Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops in the past 13 years. She has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to www.everydaytantra.com

Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 18 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 16 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

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