CyberBDSFemme - A Women's Virtual Play Party

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This month's theme is: MAYkeout ... so anything related to the celebration of lips/mouth/make-outs/breathe/face masked.

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CyberBDSFemme - A Night for the WOMEN to (Virtually) Enjoy Kink

Kink curious? Then come enjoy performances highlighting BDSM and kink with other Women in - well, wherever you have wifi!

***This virtual play party is for CIS AND TRANS WOMEN ONLY. We are screening your email.

What's newish?

-Playing a kinky "Mother May I" thru the night

-Prizes randomly given out because you are special

-Virtual doors open at 7:30pm PST/ Performances at 8pm PST

-Limiting to 50 guests

-Ticket sales will close at 8pm or when we sell out, whichever comes first

-Cruise room

-Indicators for womxn who want to play

------we deeply appreciate your feedback to give you the best virtual play party ever!

The Schedule:

7:30-8:00pm - Greetings from Mistress Justine Cross - I miss you! Show me your outfits

8:00-9:00pm ish - Round One of the talented team of creative performers will be doing BDSM/burlesque acts

9-9:30pm ish - Intermission and Break out Cruise Room

9:30-10:30 pm - Round Two

10:30pm - Afterparty/encore/we'd love to spotlight your scene!

The Space:

We normally host this long-running party from DTLA's Dungeon East. For our virtual event, we encourage you to set your own sexy mood in whatever space you occupy. Turn on your video so we can all feel more connected or at least put a kinky photo as your profile pic. No need to show your face if you are private ;) Expect a "cage cam" where Mistress Justine will keep you in your place!

Note: Not feeling up to participating/shy/social anxiety/zoom fatigue? We get it! No need to be on cam, you can just watch some awesome performances and enjoy! This is about coming together in community in whatever way feels good. xo

Meet the Players:

Mistress Justine Cross - Hostess

Mistress Justine Cross is femme queer dominatrix quarantined in Los Angeles. She owns Dungeon East (RIP Dungeon West.) Justine is an educator, a provocateur and all around bad ass Bitch who also runs BDSFemme - an all women's play party. In a state of rainbow panic and glitter, she organized and hosted the 1st LA Kink Pride - a series of events and classes conducted entirely online. Her favorite things to do in quarantine include buying plants, going to virtual strip clubs and having craft cocktails delivered weekly. Please visit her website:; Follow her on insta/clubhouse/tiktok @thejustinecross and twitter: @justineplays.

Regan - Hostess & Performer

Co-creator of the @CyberClownGirlsShow! Pioneering virtual strip club dancer and performance artist, erotic visual story-teller, idealist, feminist, pole dancer, philanthropist, activist. Lover of bourbon, road trips, making video art, & theatre.

Mx Shane - Virtual Dungeon Monitor

Mistress Shane is a queer lifestyle Domme with over 20 years in the BDSM/kink community. Shane has been running flogging and bondage classes online as well as BDSMeditation Journey, a weekly meditation for kinky folks. She is partners with Mistress Justine Cross. She will kick all males out da zoom and run the Cruise Room.

Jessabelle Thunder - Performer

Los Angeles burlesque performer and pin-up model. 1st runner up for BHOF 2018 and Burlesque Top `10 2020. Mission: inspire/empower womxn.

Shanita Bump - Performer

🥀𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔪𝔬𝔯𝔤𝔲𝔢 𝔪𝔞𝔡𝔢 𝔪𝔢, 𝔤𝔯𝔞𝔳𝔢𝔶𝔞𝔯𝔡 𝔯𝔞𝔦𝔰𝔢𝔡 𝔪𝔢🥀 performance artist

Kat "Misty Lish" - Performer

Jazmin Wu - Performer

***Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable***


1. What should I wear?

Really, just typical going out wear for a cocktail party/bar - whatever makes you feel sexy and cool!  Latex, leather, lingerie are also awesome!  ABSOLUTELY NO NUDITY if your camera is on - Zoom rules.

2. What should I expect?

To have fun! We are here to help you enjoy!

3.  Should I tip? How much?

Yes! Tipping is always a nice gesture for a job well done.  We recommend $5-20+ Please note that the nature of this event is more performative in order for it to translate well online and we strongly encourage you to show that appreciation. Each performer will be posting their paylinks in the chat.

4. Who can come?

Cis- and trans- women 18+.  Please respect this. We will remove you immediately if you are not complying with our guest policy.

5.  What is the photo/video/recording policy?

Absolutely not allowed!  We want to make sure that people feel comfortable to express themselves, which is why we have a very strict no photo policy.  

6.  Do I have to be gay/lesbian/queer/femme?

No.  You just have to identify as a cis or trans -woman.

7. I don't identify always as a cis-/trans- woman/gender is complicated.

We TOTALLY understand but the intention for this party is for cis- and trans- women only.  We happily host and recommend other online events that are for everyone.

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