Becoming a Main Character Mum

Motherhood changes us, but it doesn’t erase us!

Becoming a Main Character Mum: real , clear & confident AF is THE event for us mums who are DONE running on autopilot and want to start embracing the new ‘us’.

This isn’t a parenting workshop. And don’t worry, we’re certainly not going to tell you that you can ‘have it all’ or ‘we all have the same 24 hours in a day’...

...This is about YOU.

We’re talking confidence, we’re talking identity, we’re talking clarity and rediscovering the boss b*tch woman that’s behind the ‘mum’. Because, trust us, she’s in there, even though you may feel she’s gone forever.

What we’ve got in store:

• Real AF conversations with women who GET it
• A game-changing confidence talk, with immediate hacks you can put into action right away
• A lot of ‘OMG, same’ moments
• A real Streatham community vibe (we may be bias but there is no group better than Streatham mums)
• The most wonderful breakfast spread from our SW16 Bar & Kitchen friends
• Coffee… juices… mimosas… and more coffee

Because you CAN rebuild your confidence, we’ve done it. And this is where it starts.

So, who’s it for?

• Mums who’ve forgotten that they are actually a person living life too
• Women craving confidence, seeking clarity and wanting connection (because it can be bloody lonely, we know that)
• Anyone who’s ever thought ‘I love my kids, but I miss ME’
• First time mums, mums with newborns, mums with teens, seasoned mums or anywhere in between – we’ve got you!

And what you’ll leave with after 2 hours:

• A stronger sense of who you are (beyond ‘mum’)
• Immediate things to do to boost your confidence and self-trust
• That fire back in your belly (and coffee)
• A sense of belonging, a community and know that Becoming and SW16 Bar & Kitchen is YOUR safe space
• That spark back, and you’ll know how to keep it alive this time
• A shifted mindset, where you’ll no longer think about ‘what’s wrong’ and you’ll start thinking ‘what’s possible’

Who are your hosts:

Becoming’s Co-Founders Leni (a fellow Streatham mum) and Robyn (a non-mum but an absolute power-house in the world of mindset shifts). Together we blend warmth, humour and expertise to create spaces that are brave, real and genuinely transformative.

(A little note from Leni)

I’ve lived in Streatham for 8 years now and have a 5 year old daughter and a 1 year old son. The chaos is real (IYKYK). You’ll hear my story at the event, but my confidence bombed after my 1st child, I looked at everything I could to find who I was again (fitness, new job, new clothes, you know the vibe), but then I worked on my mindset. I knew if I could re-wire my brain to believe I had my sh*t together, to trust myself and back my decisions, everything else would click into place. And it did. I’m proof that it can be done and even when wobbles hit (because of course they still do, I’m a mum of two), I know I have the answers. My partner in crime, Robyn, isn’t a parent, but absolutely gets it. We started the business when I was 4 months pregnant with my son and was happily doing bum pats and two steps around my living room when we were deep in business strategy. Streatham mums is the best community out there, I’ve met life long friends and having the opportunity to host this event, at the gorgeous SW16, is a privilege. See you there!