Since birth we have been socialized to act certain ways. “Don’t ever hit a girl”, “never kick a man in his groin”, “you’re a big person, be careful not to hurt anyone”, “Good girls would never do that” etc. Join “Alternative Life Coach” Bo Blaze, PCC as he examines how these "demons" affect those of us who like to consensually hurt one another. Even within consensual dynamics, we may still feel a sense of guilt and shame associated with our "taboo" attractions. This can keep us from reaching our potential as tops and bottoms and truly making spiritual connections to our sadism and/or masochism.

Bo Blaze is a PCC certified “Alternative” life coach; specializing in Alternative Sexual Relationships & Non-Traditional Lifestyles. He is the author of the bestselling book “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” and is a nationally known expert on Kink, Lifestyle BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy (Polyamory), the Fetish World and LGBTQ issues. He has taught and lectured all over the country at hundreds of universities, conferences and various alternative events. He is a winner of the Pantheon of Leather President’s Award and has helped thousands learn to practice Safe, Sane & Consensual BDSM as Novice Group Facilitator for 13 years & Board Member Emeritus, for The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), the oldest BDSM support and education group in the Country. For more information please visit www.AlternativeLifeCoach.com and his book page: www.50shadesofcurious.com/50soc